How can I get over the biggest insecurity in my life?!

Question: How can I get over the biggest insecurity in my life?

I feel pretty good about myself. Except for this one thing. I didn't get my driver's license until I was 28. In high school, my best friend was killed in a car accident and it really got to me. I'm also very uncoordinated and clumsy. I would panic whenever I got behind the wheel. I never had any problem getting where I needed to go through rides, cabs, buses, walking, etc. But the fact I got my license so late makes me feel so bad about myself. I can drive okay now. But I'm always worried people will judge me for being too scared or too stupid to get my license when everyone else did.

If not for this, I'm a pretty decent guy. :(

Answers:

As a female, I would not be turned off by this at all. Any reasonable person that knows the whole story won't judge you for it. Most people will be completely unaware that you got your license so late. In fact, it shows off some good traits: value of life, sensitivity, and even loyalty. I hope it does not hold you back :)

No one will know unless you bring it up. It's not a normal conversation topic, when you got your DL.

Also, many people dont get their licenses until later in life...it doesn't mean anything.

You're getting obsessed over nothing.

Everyone is different. Not everyone has the same milestones in life. There is nothing wrong with it.

Theres no problem with getting your license at that age. Completely understandable man. Theres no reason to judge.

Only complete *** holes & douche bags will judge you for that.
You're being a safe person!! No one should judge you for caring about your safety!

Forget about it. It doesn't matter to anyone.

Lots of people do things at different times/ages in their lives.

dont drive if you dont feel comfortable driving

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