I don't feel excited for life anymore?!

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Well this story is repeated every day by a small percentage of females . Getting out of this funk will take a long time so you best plan to enjoy whatever you can. You are in depression heading for serious depression. Your aura is out of balance and it is causing you to lose simple drives for life and think clearly during the day. We have to go to things you know and build from there. In Proverbs one verse says excite your own well that you maybe productive. Now accept that there are secrets hidden from you in society and home life. Begin small and work from there. Be a spy and also try to decipher the second language of symbolism,. Dont use medication unless you give up the war of frowns from the romantic cannibals that you sleep with.
It takes one to know one

Get a boyfriend. It's as simple as that. Companionship of the opposite gender releases hormones that make you happy and motivate you.

That's life.

Try pot.

Your changing
people change

Forget the answers saying try other drugs. Ive done almost all of them excluding LSD, None of them stay fun forever.

The thing about life is not everyone has to find a calling. Really its the truth, I know you think thats stupid but lets put it this way. I didn't wake up today and say I wanted to be a Pizza boy. It just happened that way. I enjoy my job, I make okay money. I still haven't decided what I want to do with my life and I don't think I have to anytime soon. Right now im more focussed on just enjoying my life. Thats your true and real calling. Because thats the main point of life in general.

Look at your life. Most of your time spent is nothing but work. Things take years to accompolish. While we usually don't have much of a choice and have to keep ourselves occupied. There is a way to enjoy life and work at the same time. School, Your job. etc. You have to find a way to enjoy it all on your own. I found my way for example. Like I said im just a Pizza guy. lol I really don't like my job either. But hey. I make it fun by having a good attitude when I go to work.

As far as your family goes and what you want to do with your life. For your family I think you should just do what you want to do. You are 20 years old. Stop feeling so held down! You are a free bird and spirit. Once you realize it you can really begin to be you. Its not that hard to realize either because in reality its 100% true. With your life and career choice. I say don't decide just yet. If someone rushes you into deciding then I would back out of it. Right now, If you truly and honestly do not feel excited about your life and future at all. Then thats a sign of Depression. Even if you feel like you're always a happy person and thats not you. There are many types of Depression. Right now you are going through what I like to call "first signs of aging" Note: There is no actual name for it. But you feel tired of life like an old person would. One thing that really helped me out with that problem personally. Ive gone through the same thing when I was 20. Same age as you! Anyway what helped me was eating healthier, working out and I even got my own gym membership. I started living a lot younger and I felt younger. Try it! If it doesn't work come back and shoot us another question.

I hope I helped.