scared? confused ? where do i go?!


Question: Scared? confused ? where do i go?
i used to have friends. not a million but some really good ones. then my mom died and everything went to hell. i pushed away everyone i know. family , friends. i feel alone and isolated. i feel empty inside. i dont know anyone, no one knows me. i know people still care. its hard to let them in. even if i try. i dont know how to anymore.. im scared to make new friendships. i am very shallow. i hate myself. im confused. i feel stupid. weak. im a guy. i dont feel like one. i tried hard to believe in god, but hes either not there or he hates me. either way. i hate him too. i dont know what my problem is. where to go? whats wrong with me? if i will ever get better? if anything i just said made sense at all..so what do i do and where do i go?

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Dazed, you have been through a VERY rough period in your life, seeing your mom die. I know because that happened to me, too, and I remember how tough it was. And yes, you can turn to people for help - at least those of us who have been through what you've been through. And it's good that you have been honest with yourself about your feelings about God, even though I am certain He does not hate you; quite the opposite. Consider reading Psalm 34:18 in the Bible and see what you think - I find that verse very encouraging. And to answer your question "where do I go", I would go see a doctor (but it doesn't have to be a therapist). You need to find out if your grieving will pass or if you are suffering from depression. If you are, a doctor can help. I am rooting for you, Dazed.


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