What can I do to gain confidence?!

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Hi Stephen ,

Actually , you're not the only one who feels that he lost his self-confidence . In simpler terms you feel you are a no- good person in this wide world.
To handle this , you should first figure out what your problem is ; realize that your low self -confidence is not about who you are , it's about hiding who you are .

Figure out who you are , like taking self-evaluation quizzes for example .
Realize your limits , which means that you should know that nobody's perfect . So if you weren't born that beautiful or rich or smart .....etc. , that's ok. because you have a personality of your own even if you don't believe in this .

Think and speak positively , smile and be courteous , these feelings will lift your spirits.
Keep good and positive company , positive feeds positive and negative breeds negative .So , choose to be around positive people who will not try to judge you in anything you say or do.

Start learning something new , a hobby or another language just to break the routine and to prove to yourself that you CAN.

Reward yourself when you succeed in anything ( I used to do this for myself ! ) , treat yourself to something wonderful.
Just be patient and strong . Enjoy life and start to regain your true YOU.

Take care.

Just remember that everyone has insecurities of their own so aren't always looking out for yours, too concerned about themselves really. Ignore those who put you down, hard as it is. I lack confidence too (understatement!) but hope this helps, all the best. :)