Pregnant and job makes me feel fat and depressed?!


Question: Pregnant and job makes me feel fat and depressed?
I work at a hipster clothing store with a bunch of really pretty skinny girls. I am a little heavier then them naturally but now that I'm pregnant I feel totally out of place. The girls who shop in the store are all model thin and complain about being fat to me- who is fat ugly and ten times bigger then them. Its really starting to effect me emotionally and I'm scared the stress of self hating is bad. I feel out of place and like customers are wondering why I even work there. Should I quit?

Answers:

Quit your job. Theres no point being in a situation your just not going to be happy in. Besides you have a baby on the way, theres enough stuff to sort out concerning your baby, you dont need a bunch of whores making you feel down. Besides, when you have your baby you could be off work for monthes, you might decide to not to go back. My advice is to quit.



I'm sorry you feel the way you do. You shouldn't quit if you love your job, but you should quit if you think you would be more comfortable somewhere else. It is unfair that society places such importance on a specific body image and you deserve to be around people who don't put that aspect of your self as number one. Focus on your new baby and a new you who is above the silly standards set by some horny guy who doesn't know what it means to have a soul!



NO WAY JOSE GIRL! don't you quit! You have a beautiful baby on it's way. This is for you and your baby. Think about that. I know it's easier said than done but you shouldn't let these girls take that away from you. Looks really aren't all that to be honest with you. It is true that we all age as time progress but the inside is what counts the most!



What you have to think of is that little person growing inside you,They will not always have their figure,But you will always have someone who will love you for being their mom no matter what size you are.
Be happy.
Ted.




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