Please help me. I have no motivation to try anymore?!


Question: Please help me. I have no motivation to try anymore?
I need your help. I have always been more of the depressed types. (I am eighteen soon to be nineteen). I always doubt myself, and lately I have had no motivation to do anything. I have been ruining my parents life because I am always down. They won't take me to the doctor either. But I honestly wish things would change. I wake up some days and feel like trying again, but then I will go downhill soon after. I have very few friends it seems. I've never had a boyfriend. I went out with a guy over a month ago, it lasted two weeks and he then broke my heart. I just don't know where to start anymore. I had a person from my workplace offer me a position as a pianist for their church choir, and I really would like to do it, but I need to practice lots. I'm not very skilled at piano, but I have no motivation to practice and I don't feel that I will be good enough. What can I do to change? I am always trapped at home too. I don't have a drivers license, and I keep failing the test. We live fifteen miles down dirt roads and an hour away from the city, so when I say I am trapped, I mean I am trapped.

Answers:

Dont be a victim in your own life. You are not a prisioner. What never ceases to amaze me is that millions of people wish to come to america for ALL the opportunities, yet americans are sitting around "oh poor me why me, why is my life so bad". Get up and get determined to get your drivers licence. You need some change. Perhaps your circumstances have cause this depression. Take some risk with your life, get your drivers license and move away, do something daring, get out of your rut.

You need to change your circumstances but you don't need to change you. All you need to do is find who you are what you like. Once you find that out act on it. Embrace life fully, it is really not that bad.

Take care dear, and do something for yourself. Thats the funny part about life, no one will do things for you, you have to make it happen.



i understand you , ive been through thiss , & i undstand when you say your trapped at home , i would b pleaase to help you , can you email me ? sonitraa@yahoo.com , email me tara , i reallyy wanna help you



ur only trapping urself more n more
u need to try more go out make friends with the birdies lol
but yea live life a lil quit bein down all da time be glad u wake up in da mornin at least u know u have sum to live for



Honey, you can never be trapped...believe me...you can live the way you want to... the truth is if you can;t get out to the city, then why don't you make the city come to you? Yes you may ask how? You have been wonderfully made...and you have so much in you... you have to make use of it... i know a guy, who lived more than 30 miles away from the city, along dirt road and a dangerous way no one ever wanted to travel .. but he took it as a challenge especially as they were too poor to move... he read a book, that revolutionize his thinking and in no time, people from all over were looking for him, because of what he could offer them. this is the truth, people will search for you, no matter where you are if you have something to offer and everyone has something to offer.. so you have to discover yourself...a very good way to start is by reading Think and grow rich, by Napoleon Hill believe me you will never remain the same.. It has helped a lot of people today and 95% of today's billionaires attest to it as it saved their own life you can download a free copy at www.amazingsecretsoflife.blogspot.com




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