Why do i feel old even being 17?!


Question: Why do i feel old even being 17?
hi, thanks for reading this question :) I am just 17 and a boy. Everything is okay. But i feel old. I do not fear to become old but i feel myself to be old. i meant I know it is weird. I cannot understand that properly myself. I dress like someone 25, classic jeans, hairstyle, t shirt but mostly shirts. I wear glasses.

Because of that everyone calls me Superman. i don't know i mean i am not a giant or have supernatural powers (which never existed), or may be because of the way i behave. I do not talk too much. i fear to talk to people and have social anxiety, i act weirdo when i go out. People say that i am too strict. I am just a normal teen who is a bit clumsy that's it. I do not have too much friends of my age group.most of my friends are like 18 or more.

i am different compared to other, for this reason, frankly people just ignore me sometimes. I now find myself to be a jerk. Even girls now just calls me super, but i'm not. I feel frustrated. I REALLY KNOW THAT THERE IS MORE IMPORTANT THINGS OTHER THAN A STUPID TEENAGER.

At first it was okay, it was normal to me but now it is becoming a bit too much. I am quite feeling a bit tired of that and i don't know how to proceed please could anyone help me ?.

PS: i am sorry for wasting your time. I apology for that. thanks

Answers:

It's alright. Growing up, you feel different things - you can't control the way you feel sometimes.
I'm 18 btw.

Some of what you said sounds like me. Sometimes I'm scared to talk - maybe it is social anxiety - other times (when I've eaten a good breakfast) I just feel relaxed and talkative - normal.

I know that I can't completely empathise with your Superman issue, but just try to ignore it. Superman is rather attractive, a mon avi.


You've only got about 2 more years of these people, and then you can move on - away from the people who you don't enjoy the company of etc.

Maybe try telling them that you don't like it when people call you Superman and then gently give your reason.

Don't show your anger, just be calm, because otherwise, they might do it more because you've reacted so much to it.


Good luck



you should not care about what others say you are not doing anything wrong so just ignore what they say and look forward to your future. take care.



If you're more mature than the average 17 y.o boy that's not a bad thing.




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