How do i go on? or do i just end it all?!


Question: How do i go on? or do i just end it all?
I lost the person that means the most to me. she was like my own personal anti depressant. she was my best friend. i've done so much for her. but i lied. once. and she has given up on the friendship. she won't talk to me. she won't look at me. she won't give me the opportunity to talk. i hate myself for it. i serioulsy would rather not be here at all than lose her as my best friend. i don't know how to go on. i've come so close to committing suicide. all i think about is when am i going to die. i just want to die. i dhonestly don't think she would care if something bad happened to me at this point and at least i wouldn't have to deal with this pain. i don't know what to do. i don't know how to go on. i just want to leave this place. for good.

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this might not be what you want to hear, but be honest here hun and ask yourself if committing suicide wouldn't just be a way of telling your mate off for how she's made you feel - make her feel guilty and regret it all, knowing that it's all too late. Perhaps your mate just needs time to calm down and think things thru. Problems always seem so much worse when we're upset and just waiting an hour or two can make a dramatic difference to how we're feeling.

You CAN cope with this, you ARE strong and you WILL get through this. Do whatever you need to that gets your emotions out - cry too much, eat too much, sleep, etc etc. but suicide is never the answer. Write your friend a letter or poem - they don't need to see it but you obviously need to express how you're feeling. Try and find someone you can tell how you're feeling too - that you're so upset you want to end it all. someone who'll listen and be there for you, to give a hug and a shoulder to cry on.

Stay strong hunny, life is hard but the next great moment in your life is just around the corner... why not stay and see what it'll be xxx



i understand you feel like you cannot go on without her, but in time you will long for her less and less. you will move on, you definitely can live without her as your best friend. and think, this could be a wonderful opportunity for you to make new friends, and for her to get some space from you. both of you are entering new stages in your life, embrace it rather than longing for what was. that'll only make the pain last longer. good luck.



When I say this, I'm being serious. CALL 911 NOW!!! Please do so, I can't stand to know somebody ended their life! If God doesn't have a good future for you, he would've already killed you. But you're still alive aren't you?! STAY THAT WAY AND PLEASE GET HELP!!



honestly you must have the self-confidence of a bowl of tartar sauce to have all of your happiness resting in someone else.. grow some balls and get over it



Tell ur friend everything u just said on here and see what she says. She may just need to calm down and let everything settle back down. Let her no that u are truley sry.



You need to call 911 and tell them that you are suicidal! Immediately.



tell ur friend all that u just posted then see what happens



Don't even think about suicide, its irreversible. We all make mistakes, sometimes they can be undone and times they can't. Either way taking your own life is never the solution. First try and ask her for forgiveness, If that doesn't work then you'll have to move on. Its takes some inner strength and some time but you WILL feel better one day. We all have down points in our lives but they are only temporary. Never dwell in the past and let guilt overwhelm you. I've made mistakes but I try to forget the consequences and instead remember the lesson. Good luck.



you will need to tell her how you feel.... if you actully did do anything to urself, of course she would care...what ever happened between yous i think you should talk about it and that such a good friend ship should not be broken. ok so , she wont give you the chance to talk, cud you try other ways maybe, tex, write a letter to her.... things have happened to me in the past with my best friend... butwe came friends again, but there are only such things i can tell her yano... things, i hope will get better..




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