Do I need therapy for this?!


Question: Do I need therapy for this?
I live with my mother & grandmother, they're totally insane, and dragging me down with their depression and they won't get professional help for their problems (they're both really depressed and my mother is a hoarder). My dad (who's really my step dad) is getting really tired of this too and now my mother and him are probably going to split up, he's already moved out to his old house across the street, and now I think he's had absolutely enough and they're probably going to really get divorced. My mother will totally be depressed then, and my grandmother is so cold hearted she doesn't care about anything we're going through... she's all like "Keep smiling, better days are coming..." And I know I'm stupid for not just moving the hell out already, but they're guilting me out and I'm letting that happen...

Now there's this guy on yahoo answers who seems like he is totally adamant about killing himself, and although I think there's still so much hope for him because he's reached out to this website at least, he won't write back and I understand why, but I just want to help him so badly, and he won't let me. And all of this is reminding me of my half brother who killed himself when he was my age, 23. And I couldn't help him, and now I can't help this guy...

Do I need to go back to therapy?

Answers:

enter them into hoarders (your mom & grandma).
you don't need therapy.. they do ! you are 23 though, I think it is time to move out.
I think that will do a lot more good than paying money to a therapist, you need to get
rid of the problem!!
also, i think you should look into smoking a little weed. seriously, if you feel stressed
and sad i think that it could benefit you. but if you're completely against it then i guess
not. i just know that really helps me and my grandma is a hoarder too and i moved out
of my mom's house at 17.

the guy on yahoo answers has his problems and i know you want to help him but if
all you can do is send him a message and you did then really you did all you could
and you can only hope that with that message he takes what you said to heart..
i am sorry about your brother but i am sure it was not your fault and he still watches
over you! =]



if you are totally obsessed with this guy perhaps therapy is needed
any chance you could live with your dad?



Yes.
You do.
And I hope you do.



Wow, thats intense. but to be honest, if you do really think that you need help, like you just need to get rid of the stress/depression go for it or move out, but if they're guilting you out, just ignore it because you also deserve to be free, and to be away from certain situations and let your parents deal with their problem. Plus i also think your mom needs therapy too, since she is a hoarder, that could get serious too.




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