Is this considered verbal Abuse?!


Question: Is this considered verbal Abuse?
whenever im with my ex (which is a lot) part of the time he is super sweet and the other he is in a bad mood. he will constantly call me a "peice of ****" or say stuff like "she is too crappy to get off her lazy ***" he will also call me fat a lot and he is part of what made me anorexxic and he knows this. this always makes me feel so terrible when he says this stuff. is it verbal abuse or not that bad?

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This is considered verbal abuse. You need to put him out of your life, as he is only your ex. He's not much of a friend if he puts you down like that. I had a boyfriend/friend a few years ago who was emotionally abusive. He called me a fat, ugly, b**** and would blame stuff on me constantly and was overly jealous and would make me feel bad when I talked to my friends. I was always an emotional wreck. His calling me fat lead to my eating disorder that I have struggled with for over 3 years now. I have a purging disorder which has been bulimia but now moreso EDNOS. It took 2 years for me to let him go, but was 2 years too long. Don't make this mistake by staying with him. If he tries to make you feel bad for leaving him as a friend, don't listen to it. Yes, it's easier said than done, but once you have him out of your life you will feel better. The emotional scars will be there, because it won't make you feel better instantly, but it will take time for you to heal. I wish you luck and I know you can do it. Please get help for your eating disorder, at least tell someone. I know it's hard, but this will kill you eventually. Best of luck.



In my opinion it is alot like verbal abuse. You shudnt be wit sumone who treats you that way and you also should never change yourself for anyone. If it makes you feel terrible maybe you shudnt be with this guy at the end its only making you feel bad about yourself. If he doesnt change maybe you should reconsider why ur even wit him.



The description you give is of an abusive situation where one person has unfortunate circumstances and the other is using those as a bludgeon, presumably to gain control by means of intimidation.

This sounds like someone who should not be part of your life.

Kind of like someone who scribbles meaningless letters and calls it an answer.



yes, and if you went anorexic because of HIM calling you fat, then i'm pretty sure you can go to a judge and sue him.

(that'll get rid of him) lol.



Yeah that's verbally abusive...any language that offends you is verbal abuse. Is it extreme? Maybe, it just depends on your level of sensitivity.



Yes that is verbal abuse. You should avoid being around him. It sounds like he is detrimental to your mental and physical health.



Yes that is verbal abuse



yes, hes your ex for a reason and I can see why, stop hanging out with him, he doesnt deserve you.



If you really have to ask if this is bad or not than maybe you deserve him. Use your brain!



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