Why does an adult behave like an abuse victim, despite having very loving parent!
Question: Why does an adult behave like an abuse victim, despite having very loving parents?
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It sounds like she is suffering Depression because of the heartache from that relationship. She most likely feels as though it is her fault that she was let down and that she let her hopes rise; she is most likely blaming herself for what happened. It's not that she was overly protected throughout her life, although that fact makes it slightly worse, but she probably keeps comparing her new relationships to that old one. She must've felt protected, safe, and at ease with her boyfriend/girlfriend that let her down and now she's very cautious when entering a new relationship. She looks for certain traits in the boyfriend/girlfriend of the current and tries to see if she can re-make the old one only WITHOUT the heartache.
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