am i the reason for her pain what can i do to help stop all these pains?!

Question: Am i the reason for her pain what can i do to help stop all these pains?

my girlfriend who is only 14 had a baby and its my son she got kicked out of her house for not telling them... i asked her not to tell anyone... she is cutting herself because of all the stress she is going throw being a mother and my parents kicking us out yesterday...i feel like its all my fault because i touched her on our first date and she let me do what i wanted to her after that... i didn't really ever let her tell me no if she said no i would keep doing it... am i in the wrong here... i'm i the reason for all the pain she is giving herself cutting... all the pain she has from having our son like 4 weeks ago.... all the pain from her parents and family disowning her... i'm only 16 years old i love this girl like crazy... we are living with her friend and yesterday her friend talked to me and told me i better watch what i do with my girlfriend... am i wrong for everything... :( i don't want her in pain all the time... what should i do to help her?

Answers:

Ok you blame yourself and yes you are responsible for some of the pain now its time to act like a grown up and make it better. She needs to see a counsellor about the cutting for a start and you need to see the council about housing. Do you have any family or friends who can help you out? Just by talking and sharing your problems it might make her feel that she isnt alone. She is very young and is likely to look to you for guidance. She needs to grow up and mature but this will only happen in time. It is up to you to consider her feelings and make it possible for her to speak her mind without fear of retribution. It is a difficult situation and you are both very young to take this on, but it can be done.

This is what can happen when kids have sex. Very sad. You both are responsible.

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