I have a serious problem.....?!
Question: I have a serious problem.....?
I am having speech training->( Signing ) lessons and i sit for 20 mins with my teacher after the lesson so he can hear me because i am shy enough to sing by myself when the're are 6 girls in the class ...So
we both understand that i have a nice voice but the problem is that i am so shy to look in my teachers eyes and not only i don't like looking in someones eyes because i am very emotional and i can easily cry or start laughing ....
What do i do ?
It's not funny .. :/
I feel really bad ..... help
Answers:
try to take big, deep breaths before you sing and maybe once you get over your shyness and start to sing in front of the other girls in your class look in all of there eyes start by looking at one person then just turn your head so your not just staring one person down the whole time you singing
another thing that might work is practice looking people in their eyes with a family member or someone you rally trust, that way you wont feel like your being judged......
HOPE I HELPED YOU!!!! xD
ps. dont worry, i'm as shy as they come!
You seem to be kind of introverted and a bit insecure. Feeling the need to laugh or cry when looking into someones eyes may be a reaction to counter feelings of discomfort. Also, there's a saying that the "eyes are like windows to the soul". Depending on the person and circumstance, solid eye contact can be very intense.
Or.... maybe some people intimidate you which makes it difficult to maintain eye contact. You should ask yourself these questions when this happens... hopefully that helps.
Umm okay had to read it twice but you should try talking to someone. Or practice confidence.