Is there something wrong with me? Trust issues, maybe?!


Question: Is there something wrong with me? Trust issues, maybe?
Okay, so I have friends, but when I look back to how we met, I realize that I hated them at first. Like I didn't want to get close to them because I didn't know if they would be able to keep secrets or if they would be there and not go behind my back or something. With my best friend, I really didn't know what to think of her. At first, she was stand-offish, so I didn't know if she'd be a good friend. My other best friend, well, I didn't know if me and my best friend could trust her because she was new and she seemed odd. With my other close friend, I just really didn't like him. I don't know why. Then with my other friend, he was one of the "bad kids" and I didn't know how to react to his "playing around" so I hated him. What's wrong with me? I still think these things and I always try to find reasons why NOT to let someone in. Is this a trust issue I have? What should I do to fix it?

Answers:

It sounds like the first two friends are alright, otherwise it seems like your not good at picking friends. That, or you might be a little too selfish to compromise with other people, and that can turn into serious issues. I hope you just arent good at picking friends.




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