why do i always have this constant need for reassurance?!


Question: Why do i always have this constant need for reassurance?
i feel ugly right now and i need reassurance that i'm not.
i always have this constant need for reassurance.. & it’s ruining me. how do i stop this?
it's not even always re-assurance about my looks.. but when i'm dating someone or in a relationship .. i always need reassurance that he thinks i'm beautiful and still loves me.

why do i always need reassurance for everything?

there is something wrong with this.. it has ruined many things for me.

Answers:

insecurities but we a lot of us have them... just need toControl them.... for instance for me I have to have something that I know looks Good.... :) but I also look at the mirror and tell myself that I look good (not in a coincided way, but u need to realize that you are beautiful what really matters is how you carry your self and by that I mean the interior not clothing hairdos make up but how u feel inside :D trust me if u feel beautiful inside at the end of the day You will be radiant, took me a while to get there but I managed and every now and then I slip but pick myself up. hope my experience will help you and others :)



I'm kind of like that and i actually find it getting worse. i find myself looking for the approval and admiration of other ppl all the time. i guess the important thing to remember is that its not really anyone else's responsibility to make you feel better about yourself. life is what you make of it. good luck!



i have the same problem :(
i always need to be reassured that my boyfriend loves me or else i think he hates me.
but thats the only thing i need reassurance with. and its because things triggered it when i was younger. so maybe something triggered yours as well.
btw. you are beautiful. i just know it :)



i'm the exact same way, except when im single i have alright self esteem and when i enter a relationship my self esteems drops to the point that i cant even look in the mirror without breaking down in tears about how ugly i am....

http://a3.twimg.com/profile_images/12599…



You're beautiful, always remember that.



Your avatar is pretty.




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