Why does it hurt so much when people deceive you?!


Question: Why does it hurt so much when people deceive you?
I feel like I have trust issues for a reason. Everytime I think it's unhealthy to feel this way and open up. I get hurt again.

Can anyone else relate?

Answers:

Do you not understand that I love you? I've tried to get you to open up, and you have to an extent, but you keep pushing me farther away. :( I want you to be able to open up to me so much, and I do understand your pain, more than anyone!!! I'm here for you! Why won't you just let me be here for you? It tears me to pieces inside to see you hurting like this, but you keep shutting me out! OMG, I LOVE YOU!!! I think about you every waking moment. I want to shout my love for you from the roof tops! I toss and turn in my bed all night, unable to sleep because I just want to hold you and comfort you! I have NEVER loved anyone like I love you! I don't care who hears or who knows, I LOVE YOU!!! why won't you let me love you? :'(



In the end, you find out that 99% of the deception was to distract you from the even more 1% that wasn't reality either. This doesn't in any way encourage trust. It does make one wonder why they would waste so much time coming up with something that can be proven 100% wrong. But hey, it was a quick fix for them.



Yea,
it feels like everyone hurts me too,
idk i guess its part of life so says everyone i have talked to,
i didn't know life was full of so much deciept and hate...
You just got to be strong and try to make it through



You can't trust anyone but yourself. In the end, when push comes to shove, everyone would do what's best for them over what's best for someone else. Unless it's your parents.



Who cares when 2012 comes we will all die




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