Why do I hate myself so much??? help?!


Question: Why do I hate myself so much??? help?
I hate how I look, I hate the way I walk, the way I laugh, the way I smile, the things I do, the things I say. It was getting better for awhile...but now it's bad again. People tell me I'm beautiful and have a great personality and blah blah, yet I still think I'm horrible and just a failure and a messup...and I don't even know why....I just do. So what do I do? Do I need counseling or something?

Answers:

If you don't know that you need counseling,and need to ask others,that's kinda bad.
You said that it was getting better for a while,but it's bad again.I don't know what you were doing before to make things good,so it'll be hard to really give you pointers.
The number one thing you should remember is that you are you worst enemy.
Things that might help....stop thinking so negatively about yourself.I know it's a hard task to take on,but you have to challenge yourself in order to become a better person.It's how life is.When you start to think badly about yourself,mentally slap yourself and change what you thought.It'll take major self control and some time to do that.
Something else you could do,which is a bit cheesy(but might work)...you could always look in a mirror and say or think good things about yourself every day.Over a period of time maybe they'll sink in and you'll believe them.

I hope this helps to some extent.Get better!
Email me later if you need to.



I'm too pale I have no tan. I walk with my feet pointing in all the time, I also walk really slow and drag my feet. The way I laugh can sometimes be loud and obnoxious. I have braces who finds those attractive? I make stupid choices I hate the things I do yet I can't change it's harder than it seems no matter how much I want to change I try and fail. Sometimes the things I say are awkward and ruin a whole conversation it's like I'm an expert at ruining conversations.

A lot of people compliment my pale skin since most people are tan or at least have a little bit of a tan. The way I walk people call it cute all the time. I can't control my laughter but most likely my friends are laughing just as obnoxious with me or even more :p. My teeth? Pfft I get to pick out my own rubber bands and soon I'll have a beautiful nice white smile, it hasn't stopped guys from liking me. I'm not proud of the things I do but I certainly don't regret my choices since I wanted to make those choices at that time. The things I say are pretty far off haha but that's one of the things many people love about me. :D


See. I could be negative just like you. Or I could see it as positive. ^_^



well thats kinda how everyone is programmed. they judge themselves harsher than other people do so your pretty much like others. i'm not sure if others will be able to change your thinking, especially if its something you've come to believe to be true. But u should know that definitely with peoples looks, we judge ourselves harsher than other people so I wouldn't feel too bad about that. As to being a failure and a messup, your young and that will happen alot, hopefully you find your niche some place



ok so first i have the exsact same probelem!!!!!!!!! but anyway you need to get yourself esteem up know that your beautiful look at yourself in the mirrior and find an improfection...then fix it. If it still gets worse then go to a consuler or a theripist so they can help you figure this puzzle out



Compare only to yourself, your own improvement. Not to anyone else.



I think you answered your own question you do need to get help.




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