Can someone please help me,I'm scared and I'm hurting,serious answers !


Question: Can someone please help me,I'm scared and I'm hurting,serious answers only?
My father died last August and since his death I've been feeling really empty inside and I've been in so much pain.For some reason over the months the pain is becoming much worse and I feel I am becoming suicidal.Each time the pain comes back there's something inside of me that tells me if I end my life all the pain will go away.I'm so afraid and I dont want to listen to that voice in my head because I don't want to hurt myself but on the other hand im tired of crying and hurting inside.I'm afraid to tell my family because they will think I am crazy,I'm starting to think that about myself too.Can someone please tell me what to do.I pray everynight for god to take the pain away but it doesnt help.That voice is talking to me again and my heart and soul is aching.I know that I need help,Could someone please tell me what should I do??

Answers:

First of all....I'm sorry for your loss...

Losing someone, especially someone as close to you as your father is hard. You will go through ups and downs. That's normal. But, as soon as you begin having suicidal thoughts, its time to let someone help you. I think you already know what you need to do. You need to go see a doctor. And if you are afraid to go buy yourself, find a family member or a really close friend who will accompany you to the doctors. Hunny, it's going to be ok. You just need some counselling...it's hard. But, I can promise you this, it's going to be ok. Take everything one day at a time. When you start hearing those little voices, call someone, immediately. I have lost too many people to suicide...and no one ever knew how they were feeling... and if only we knew, we could have helped. You're family will NOT think that you are crazy. In fact, if you sought help, I would think of you as courageous! It's a hard thing to do sometimes...but it's the right thing...

please seek help...your family loves you...and would love to be there by your side while you get help.... they wouldnt want to attend another funeral!!!!

Best Wishes...



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Your mind is a part of your body, the most important part. When you have a wound, you dress it and try to heal it, and if it's severe, you go see someone trained to help you with it. You should feel no shame at all treating the most important part of your body like you would the rest of it. Neither should anyone else, ESPECIALLY your family. Choose the closest person you know, whether it's family or a friend, who you know to be level-headed. Talk to them. Just like you would if you needed help with a wound of your flesh.

You are already on the road to recovery. Step one is admitting to yourself there's something wrong, and you've already done that. That is NOT a small accomplishment! KEEP going! Every breath counts. You've already made it too far to give up now. Step two is to FACE your fear, and that means talk to someone. This is a practice run, and you've done well.

I have major depression and general anxiety disorder.



I understand how it feels. Sorry, life is delicate & we must do everything in our power to keep it, life it, history will not change. Move forward & always keep your father in your heart.
If you are having voice's telling you these bad things you need help. It may be your body not producing the right chemicals. A doctor needs to help you. I hate doctors, but only because a lot of them are no good but you will know when you have a caring doctor. He/she will understand & have u better in no time. Part of the remedy is to keep busy (move forward). You are here for a reason & that reason is part of the puzzle that makes this world better for all of us.
If u hurt yourself then your family would suffer twice as much. When u are old and in a rocker then and only then would you see how different the world is with all you have done, not what could have happened. Once you are gone you will be missed like u do u father. It can't be undone.
Please reach out for help.



i completely understand of wat youre going through! i went through the same thing when my aunt died 2yrs ago. i went through the same thing u went through. and yes, i also turned to god and i also felt pain. but i went and found the best psychologist i can trust and believe me, it helped a whole lot. dont ever think that your family will think youre crazy. its all in your head. so dont think that. cuz im pretty sure your family loves you. but if you dont want to tell your family, my best suggestion and advise is to seek help immediately! either a therapist or a psychologist, but it has to be A.S.A.P!!! they will help you! i promise!



During my first year of college I had no friends at all. I did not know a single person. It was the most depressed I've ever been,and I thought of suicide. Over time you find the sadness goes away. Your dad wouldn't want u to end ur life. You'll always miss a deceased parent but as life goes on tht feeling becomes less prominent. If uve ever plan a suicide I would consult a therapist. I find tht telling people about ur problems allows you to b at peace w/ urself :)



Dont commit suicide. You need to talk to your family. They shouldnt think youre crazy because they should be sad too. They care enough about you to help. Ending your life would be the worst thing you can do. Your family needs to support you. You have to talk to them. I used to be right where you are. Im 16 now. But 3 years ago my mom died. I was really close with her too. I felt so horrible. I had an empty void inside me for along time. Then i started talking to my family about it. Even now im really sad. But i continue to talk to a counselor. Im sorry about your dad. Really. I know how it feels. Please talk to your family.



A lot of times dying is the easiest way out of things but it's never the right way to end if you do it to yourself. Try to think that even tho he is gone he would want you to be strong and be there for your family. Don't think about bad things just think about the good times, even tho it's gonna Make you cry and cry it's ok just let it all out scream.


Talk to someone, sometimes we don't think that saying somethings to certain people is such a good idea... Well talk to God you don't have to pray to him all you have to do is talk like you were taking to yourself or to someone else that's not physically there with you. Look I'm not a preacher or some guy who goes to church but I know that he is out there. So please next time you think of stuff like that just calm down and talk to him. Tell him how you feel and that you want to feel better .




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