Not suicidal but the living dead, can someone help?!


Question: Not suicidal but the living dead, can someone help?
Hi everyone,
I will try to keep it short. I'm 25, have been in the states since 2005, i used to work but i quit for school and my bf and my dad pays for everything for now. you would think i would do better now that i finally have a really comfortable life. I live in a high rise condo, private pool,gym all that stuff. i dont enjoy any of it. I love my boyfriend but school has totally ruined my confidence and desire to move further. I always feel like im running out of time and there is absolutely nothing to look forward to. I have been pn birth control for 4 months now, my hormones are all out of whack. Umm I barely have a desire to type at the moment. I have tried xanax and it did nothing for me. I used to be a very happy girl, now I'm nothing but ruins. My gpa is 2.8, solely because of dropping classes and being absent. I feel terrible now that Im hearing myself. I'm a studio art major with a concentration in electronic design because i just got denied for the admissions to graphic design. I have no friends or at least noone that i hang out with. everyone in this wealthy building seems to be hooked on drugs and alcohol, I dont do that stuff. Am I ever going to make my parents happy? I'm so disappointed and done and I guess it would be helpful to hear from a few people here.

Thanks a lot and sorry I couldnt keep it short.

Answers:

just take one day at a time. do your best and realize we are human beings, not human doings. Make a list of things you enjoy and like doing. Do them more and worry less. Worry is not a strategy.



It seems to me you really need a friend to get your stress out and talk with someone who understands you. You have a really good career ahead if you but you just have to relax and take your time.I used to feel the same but a best friend just helps you through it and keep your confidence up high. Hope this helps



You are likely suffering from too much stress. Listen to music. Trance is the best music if you just want to unwind. This type of music is also deep and seems to sink deep into you. Some good artists are 4 Strings, Above & Beyond, OceanLab, DJ Encore, Armin van Buuren, and Paul van Dyk.



quit trying to make your parents happy and make your self happy.i bet helping others that are less fortunate than you would make you happy. try it its addicting.



getting involved with community service and finding some positive friends to hang out with would help!!



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Hold On. Things Will Get Better.



It sounds to me as if you have a condition, which could be a numerous things, ranging from clinical depression to narcolepsy. I'd go to a doctor and get it checked out. By the way, birth control pills are Not good for your system, they could also be having an effect on your current condition.

It seems bad now, but please do not give up hope. The very fact that you were once doing well, and that you have friends (even though they do silly things) means that you can get your life going once again. :)




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