I had a terrible relationship with my mother.. Do I need medicene? Scared to dea!


Question: I had a terrible relationship with my mother.. Do I need medicene? Scared to death of females.?
Even the ones I really wanna be nice to! I'm just afraid to be myself around them! I'm good around guys! But scared to death of girls. Even in professional settings, I'm sub consciously a little mean and made mean facial expressions.

Even when I'm just joking around with a girl, they'll start to laugh but then see my face, which is paralyzed by nervousness and stop.

My mom said she 'disowned' me when I was 6, always acted like a jealous silbing, but never a mother. I don't even know what it's like to have a mom! So what can I do to stop being so nervous around girls? Do I need medicene or what!?

Answers:

Medication and counseling will help a lot. Also, remember that a lot of people feel nervous around opposite sex especially when you are young or single or both.

Sorry about your mom. Some people should never be moms. If they just deliver babies and not able to love them or take care of them, it's so irresponsible to say the least. I had a similar mom. I no longer speak to her which is better for me and my children.

Personal experience



You just need more practice my friend. Everyone has insecurities.



i had the same problem, i have a terrible relationship w/ my dad and mom my dad news to beat me, and choke me out until i blacked out, my mom was my hero, but then when he left her a few months ago she took it out on me, and treated me like crap. i am gay because of all the crap ive been through, i am friends with nothing but girls now, i was scared of them a while ago but now i am not, try just tlaking to a counseler at ur school, make sure it is a female and u will overcme ur fear, believe me things will get better by the time ur 16 like me. :)

good luck!



Why ur nervous at ur mother. She's not like the girls in ur school. She won't ask u to be funny or anything to pleasure her. Any way if u want back that good relationship between u and her why u don't ask her : mom can we start all over again and forget anything that happened before we talk right now and start a new page. If I were ur mother I won't say no to my son that he think to make the things right finally. Or there is another way that worked for me that if u have another problem or the same problem u described above tell her that u need her advice and after she accept this open up for her and u well got more than just an answer for ur problems :) trust me these 2 ways well work




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