:( Can somebody cheer me up?!


Question: :( Can somebody cheer me up?
I have clinical depression and I'm really struggling just now. I don't even know why I'm upset, but I can't sleep, where I am it's 2:35am, and I have school in the morning, but I can't stop crying. I don't see my psychiatrist until next tuesday! I don't know if I can cope until then! I just keep crying over tiny little reasons. I feel ugly, unwanted and useless. My friends only pretend to like me to make me feel better, they say nice things but they don't mean them. These are all what I feel, can someone give me some kind words to cheer me up? :(

Answers:

first off give these 3 songs a listen:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aNZwMG_QU…
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LanCLS_hI…
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V1bFr2SWP…
these are soft songs and you will like them(:
second, think of something. think of the love of your life. no one else, nothing else. just think of the love of your life and you sitting together in the sunset cuddling together. sounds cheesy and lame but believe me it helps. example, i was so depressed that i almost took my life. i had that noose around my neck and just about to kick the chair out. then i thought of her and i sitting next to each other cuddling. ya wanna know what happened next? i got out of the noose, went to her house and collapsed in front of her feet in tears, now me and her are happy together and i'm happy and alive. if you need a friend who is there for you, send me an email at jlamtman1@yahoo.com and one more thing, you are not ugly, you are not unwanted, you are not useless. you are beautiful and loved by many people and provide the most use to the most unexpecting people. you may not know it but alot of people love you and depend on you.(:



What make you think your friends are only pretending to make you feel better? Beauty is in the eye of beholder, so what make you think you are ugly? If you are unwanted, you should be in an orphanage/homeless now. So is all up in your mind. Start reading/ listening postive songs.
Start with the Bible and worship song.



youll find your own way to your true friends and that special someone to you :) at the end of the day you are better than your friends and you need to make way for new ones, dont worry, be happy, the great words of Bob Marley :)



Screw words. Watch this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_d9WDlSv5JE

Youtube - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_d9WDlSv5JE



You are a wonderful human being and you should feel your worth



your special to someone out there even if you don't even know who they are just yet.



ur beautiful.



Just think to yourself " Hate on me haters."



I've been through a depression before. Its hard, I know. My son has been diagnosed with depression recently, and if he can't make it through it, you can too. He is only in 7th grade. You know that? You're worried. Your friends DO love you and they DO care for you. Its all in your head. Depression can do that to you. Cry it all out. I don't care if you have school in the morning. Let it all out. Then what do you do? You need to identify the problem in your life. What is the cause of your depression? Identify it, but don't dwell on it. You NEED to focus on the positive things, and I know that is extremely hard right now. There are positive things in life. Live. Laugh. Love. Laugh at something stupid. Take the time to love someone. Try to fix the problem, but don't think about it if it doesn't work the first time. Lock those horrid thoughts in a chest in your mind. Don't unlock it. Keep them there, and let them dissolve. Let happiness thrive throughout your mind. Find faith whether its Christianity, Judaism, Islam, or anything else. You are NOT ugly, unwanted, or useless. You may think that, but most people don't. Someone said something mean to you? Screw them. Go ahead and put that in the locked up chest too. If you're thinking about ending your life - don't. You want relief from your depression, right? If you're dead, then you can't feel. And if you're dead, then you can't feel the feeling of relief. Let me tell you that you WILL get through this. You're in a dark cave, and at the end of it there is a big hole of light. You'll get there. Depression is nothing but our state of minds. We let negative thoughts creep into our brains and destroy us, but you can't let it do that. You have got to fight it. Lock that btch up in a chest like I said :)



I care about you and I think you're fantastic! This is going to sound corny, but whenever I'm feeling depressed I consider this- if it were the end of the world tomorrow, all the phone lines and chat servers would be blocked up because everybody would be calling each other to say they loved each other. I know it sounds really cheesy, but think about it. Wouldn't friends be calling friends, moms calling kids, husbands calling wives? Even if I'm feeling unloved, the very knowledge that there's still love in the world always makes me feel better.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GSTKoKjJ5…
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hkGzqpGx1…
these videos always make me feel loads better.If you want something more lighthearted, you can watch some funny videos on youtube as well. making myself a cup of hot chocolate always cheers me up.
The fact that I took this time to write you a post and compile some of my favorite videos shows that I honestly want you to be happy. I hope some of my advice helps! Cheer up, feel better! We care about you.




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