My wife gets angry when others talk to me when we are out together! Advice?!


Question: My wife gets angry when others talk to me when we are out together! Advice?
Im 32 and have been married for almost 4yrs, I am crazy about my wife and couldn't get enough of her, we are both from Italy, We married after 2yrs together, she is 25 & comes from a wealthy family. I am a professional motorcycle racer & also tests GP cars and does rally driving. We are really happy together and i always tell her how much im in love with her, hold her next to me or just spend hours in bed with each other. I love her very much but we argued many times because of her dislike for what i do for a living, she knew all this when we met, I've been in accidents & previously broken both my legs, shoulder, arms etc. some of which i've had to have operations on but never give myself the full time to heal after them and he'd be back on the bike even when she'd beg me not to. We both have many friends and when we are out together at a friends party, everyone is at me, talking about my job etc. Half the night its like i've lost my wife in the crowd & i hate coming across as ignorant to others. When i call her back over she will just ignore me or says that 'they are more important that her', she can sometimes be stubborn as she is use to getting her way but i love her to death, sometimes i feel insecure that she might leave me because of her youth & that it terrifies me. It really pisses her off when im smothered by people grabbing my attention but there is nothing i can do as its part of my job. Any advice?

Answers:

It sounds as if she is very insecure. If she were willing to she might seek out the services that a therapist would be able to provide.

As long as she is feeling this way, there is no way that she is going to accept the attention you are getting right now. This is your professional. There is nothing more that you can do in order to avoid this type of attention.

Try to convince her even if it means you also going to the therapy sessions with her. She might be more willing to go if you go with her in the form of family therapy.



She probably has no social life and married you to be sure that she could finally have a friend that couldn't run away from her. My best advice is that... you run away from her. She's controlling and will probably beat you in the future if you don't get away from her controlling behavior as soon as possible.




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