Help! I'm 13 and scared...?!


Question: Help! I'm 13 and scared...?
I like reading about little toddlers getting their bare bottoms spanked by their moms. I google things, and read books and stories. I don't know why I like to do it, but I've always been interested in spanking. When I was younger, when I read about a spanking in a book, I would read it over and over and over. My parents spanked me until I was 5, but I never enjoyed it. I don't know what's going on. I'm not a troll, but I'm really scared that I'm like sick in the head or something. Help me please and don't say mean stuff.

Answers:

The first thing to address here is that you aren't "sick in the head or something". You are apparently curious and can easily satisfy that curiosity, given the abundant material and your own media saavy.

I may be hopelessly old-fashioned, but I refuse to believe that a 13-year-old could be any more curious about spanking than that it hurts, and you get one from Mom if you've done something to be punished for that calls for more than just getting yelled at. You yourself said that your parents "spanked me until I was about 5, but I never enjoyed it." As well you shouldn't; it is, after all, a punishment.

There are other aspects to spanking as practiced by so-called "consenting adults". If you are making roundabout references to that kind of activity, and expect me to play along, then you ARE a troll. That kind of spanking is done for the sole purpose of inflicting pain and degradation on people who have convinced themselves that they greatly enjoy either doing the inflicting or receiving it. Quite frankly, I find it difficult to believe that someone so young, even in today's cultural swamp, could have the remotest interest in, let alone read books on such a subject.

I add this last only because I have to acknowledge that, the world being what it is today, you just might well be (even at your tender age) morbidly curious about something that is not counted socially acceptable, to put it mildly. If you feel that such "spanking" is something you feel actually drawn to, then you should at least discuss these feelings and ideas personally with someone professionally qualified to advise you; notice I did not say "cure" or "treat"; I still think curious doesn't mean sick. But this casual forum doesn't take the place of professional advice.



You are okay.... A lot of people get what is called " turned on " by this. When you get older and are in a monogamous relationship with someone and are prepared to have a physical relationship with someone, ( preferably after you are 18) then talk to that person about it in the bedroom. It is okay. Around this time and for the next few years to come you will be finding out what turns you on. That's what happens with teenagers, just wait until you are older to explore them. Good luck!

I was a teenager once too



i had the same problem when i was your age. i sounds like a clasic case of spankaphobia. my personaly think you should face your fear/fasination with spanking and spank your parents. i bet they will be open to it. my parents were.

experience



Hahaha! That is very strange but who cares. There is nothing wrong with being obsessed with spanking. It's odd, yes.... but whatever. Just don't spank your children, or other people. Keep that thing to yourself. There are lots of people who like creepy things. I know someone who is obsessed with feet.



There is a illness that people like violence. I suggest that you see a specialist and get some help about what is going on in your head.



People have different quirks...
Nothing wrong with it unless it obviously becomes illegal... It'll be something you either grow out of or you'll start to understand more.



Spanking fetish?



Cool



<<Help! I'm 13 and scared...?>>

Don't be scared. You're OK!! You're saying you obsess about something. Your memory is stuck on thinking about spanking. It keeps repeating itself. Obsessing is caused by too much nervous system stimulation from everyday toxins found in non-organic foods and products, and or outside plants (pollen) and or indoor toxins. Specific nerve cells (aka neurons) are affected. It's some that are unhealthier than others. Everyone has some unhealthy nerve cells. Someone else's symptoms might cause nightmares for example or a food allergy.

A simple treatment is to change laundry detergents to an unscented one, rinse laundry twice, and never use fabric softener. Rewash bedding and pillow right away. Then start rewashing shirts/tops. Scented laundry detergents (and other scented products) don't effect just the sense of smell nerves, but other nerves too like the ones that regulate the mind, memory, and emotions. This one change may be all you need to stop that obsessing.

To see how other children react to toxins and allergens, watch the youtube video (TV talk show) below. It's very interesting. It makes your toxic reaction very tame indeed!! Don't worry!! You're OK.

Be a detective. How often do you think about spanking. In all rooms or just one. Only at home? At school? These are tips to what causes your obsessing. If everywhere, then it's probably linked to your clothes or detergents which are on all floors. Toxins bother the nervous system. For idea on how to avoid toxins see the web site below. Good luck....

Youtube TV video - Phil Donahue Dr Rapp
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fRDpcWZUE…
http://www.chemcialsensitivitydietweebly…




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