I'm 14 and depressed?!


Question: I'm 14 and depressed?
Nobody listens to me, I'm overweight, ugly,get bad grades,have acne etc., I got to f's on my report card and I can't take it.there is a guitar I want and waited 4 months for and since my grades are bad I have to wait another 3 months.. I hate life I need advice please stop me befor I kill myself, I remember saying I never would, now I'm about 90% I'm gonna kill myself in the next month, please give me some advice, I have friends that pick on me all the girls look at me like I'm a freak my dad hated me, I have dieseaes in my legs so I can't run and people make fun of me for it. Please help me god, praying isn't working, only 1 way out , please help me

Answers:

You know, I am going through the same thing. I don't necessarily want to kill myself, and I don't have bad grades or a disease, but I can put myself in your shoes.Yes right now the world seems like it is falling apart, but that doesn't mean yours should. Do you have any friends? If you do, be really humorous. Having humor is the best way to cope with anything, or at least that's what I always say. Look on the bright side, you could actually be dying. To get rid of the fat, just eat right. My problem is snacking. I snack ALL THE TIME. I really need to stop but oh well. Well for the bad grades, just try your best and try to listen in class. I am sorry your life feels like it sucks right now but you never get a second chance. If you kill yourself now, you will be stuck in Hell and be forever bound to the Devil,not meaning to be all religious and stuff but it is where you go if you commit suicide.

My suck-ish life



There's only one way out? What, Yahoo Answers? You're 14 years old, you're a teenager. life will get better, if you decide to make it better.

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1st of all, maybe you think people/parents can talk anyway they see fit each day. Turns out many parents are abusers. Actually they are not trying to be tough to make you better or help- they are tricking you. This goes for people at school as well. Words are abuse also.

There are 3 types of abusive people/parents. Some hit the bottle. Some hit you. And some run their mouths and put you down. THEY are sick and feel great by being mean, and thats the only reason they do it. They are wrong about everything. The typical abuser is close-minded, self-righteous and was also abused themself. Use defense and read many sites on verbal abuse etc. People tear you down to build themselves up. Youre being abused - Its their problem. Knowledge is power.

Abuse causes pain mistaken as Mental Problems. BP OCD etc. Psychiatrists commit fraud and all disorders are a hoax. For chemical imbalances NO test exists. You dont have what shrinks say you have. Dont tell anyone about your so called disorder. They will only drug you.

Jesus name and forgiving others who are wrong is important along with avoiding them.

Call or I can- Child Protective Services- Transitional help to age 21- tell your teacher. Dont tell your parents they wont listen.

Learn the truth, forgive, and Get Away from them. Read many many sites under "emotional abuse" and "dealing with bullies".

I have some questions for you if want to talk about it.

http://www.googobits.com/articles/2446-i…

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I know you feel hopeless. But I've been where you are, and it does get better, I promise. It won't be easy, but you can make it. You've had more than your fair share of hell, but it won't last forever.
Just take it one step at a time. First, sit down, put on music, and just let it all out. Once you've drowned yourself in the music, do something that makes you smile. Read a web comic, watch a funny video/movie, whatever makes you laugh.
Think about the positive. Think of your friends, happy memories, compliments, awards, talents you have (are you musical?), people you care about, anything and everything you've dreamed of doing, and they'll remind you why you should keep pushing through.
Finally, you need someone to help you through. It can be anyone, a friend, a teacher, just as long as you trust them and can talk to them about your problems. Feel free to email me if you want, too. immortalopal@yahoo.com
You have to be strong. I know you can make it. :)



Fine a activity to keep you busy find somthing that you really like and put your mind completly on it dont ever say your gona kill your self cuase lifes to great for that you havnt even grown up yet don't stress your self out and it might sound dumb but if no one lisens to you right it down in a book and tear it up so no one can read it or hide it and if that dosnt work go to consoling taking to someone you don't no may help you because some times tryin to express certain things to the ppl we love dosnt work because it may seem like there not caring just take deep breaths and relax oo and yoga is a stress reliever and a work out double trouble oo an one more thing I'm thick to like chunky and I dnt care I wear glass and have problems to but you have to not care what people say all the time because trust me if you can love you self others will to good luck and cheer up thanks hope this helped

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I really wish I knew what to say. It sounds like you're having a hard time with everything.
You are 14 though. 14 was the worst age of my life. The WORST. I'm 25 now and life is no picnic, but it is not nearly as bad as it was when I was 14. I'm not saying these feelings are because you're 14 or whatever. I'm just saying that at this age, everything is amplified to where the bad is screaming all around you, and the good things in life are hiding in the corner, barely making a sound. Eventually they will balance out a little bit...and I know it's gonna be hard, but things are going to get better. You just gotta stick around to see em.



Really, you wanna leave Earth permanently over weight, beauty, bad grades & not getting a guitar? There's so much to enjoy! I love travelling, japanese food & asian music.

One you will grow up, you can earn enough to have a plastic surgery and fix whatever bothers you (if there is anything to fix realistically) and you can buy yourself a thousand guitars. Ok, you'll need just few but still, at this age it's too soon to make any predictions.

For now you can change your haircut, wear make-up, buy clothes that you like and start working out, fatty! Don't count calories. All what you do is run, work out, then energy reserves will be depleted in muscles and then your body will burn fat for the next 22 hours. And that's how humans lose weight. I already run every day after dinner. Just don't do the dangerous Atkin's diet.




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