What is wrong with me. Please I'm so scared?!


Question: What is wrong with me. Please I'm so scared?
This may seem like such a stupid, dumb question. But Im worried. Please dont be cruel or mean.
I am 20 and for some reason my mind keeps thinking I am not a virgin, even though my ex boyfriend said I am as we never had sex. I even told my friends some of the things that me and my ex did and they said I am a virgin. My mind does this to me a lot of the times with other things as well ( I over analyze things sometimes). I keep thinking I might not be a virgin even though my ex said I am. He has no doubt about that as he is also a virgin as well and we never had sex. Please help me. I dont know what to do. I have no idea why I am thinking this way. A couple of days ago, I knew I was a virgin. So am I one? And would I have known if I had sex? Whats wrong with me? Its like I dont know what to believe :( What do I do?? Why do I all of a sudden believe I am not one? I mean I have evidence that states that I am a virgin. Like I said to my ex 2 months ago: "Is it bad that I want to lose my virginity to you?" We were on skype when I said this. I never saw him after this skype conservation. So why the hell am I all of a sudden thinking Im not a virgin???!!! Serious answers only please. The reason why it is a big deal to me is because I want to stay a virgin until I am married.
Please dont be rude.

Answers:

There's nothing wrong with you. I've answered this question of yours already and my answer will not change. If you nave NEVER had consentual penetrative sex, then you are still a virgin. It does not get any simpler than that. Even if you've had oral sex, even if you've let men touch you, if you have not have penetrative sex, you're still a virgin. What do you NOT understand about this?



If you haven't had any form of sex, you are a virgin. End of story. If you think you may have been raped while unconscious or something, go to a doctor. They can tell if you have been penetrated or not.



I can tell by what you said that you're not a virgin!



Maybe go to speak to someone like a therapist?

Hope this helps :)




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