I feel like I am losing my mind help please?!


Question: I feel like I am losing my mind help please?
This may seem like such a stupid, dumb question. But Im worried. Please dont be cruel or mean.
I am 20 and for some reason my mind keeps thinking I am not a virgin, even though my ex boyfriend said I am as we never had sex. I even told my friends some of the things that me and my ex did and they said I am a virgin. My mind does this to me a lot of the times with other things as well ( I over analyze things sometimes). I keep thinking I might not be a virgin even though my ex said I am. He has no doubt about that as he is also a virgin as well and we never had sex. Please help me. I dont know what to do. I have no idea why I am thinking this way. A couple of days ago, I knew I was a virgin. I mean I have evidence that states that I am a virgin. Like I said to my ex 2 months ago: "Is it bad that I want to lose my virginity to you?" We were on skype when I said this. I never saw him after this skype conservation. So why the hell am I all of a sudden thinking Im not a virgin???!!! Serious answers only please. The reason why it is a big deal to me is because I want to stay a virgin until I am married.
Please dont be rude.

Answers:

This sounds like chronic anxiety. See a doctor and ask for a referral for some therapy. It'll help you work through what's going on in your mind. you're not losing your mind, it's just playing a few tricks on you right now. See your doctor, take back control. Good luck.



you can test yourself first and don't try to think about that all time... It makes you ill if you continue... But I think you are virgin yet.. Your idea related to your mind only..



Your confidence has been knocked by your ex that is why you are doubting yourself. One minute all seems well and good and the next moment he's ditched you. (sorry to be so blunt) Most people go through self doubts after a break up, its the natural course of things. You will get through it so try not to worry to much.

By the way if you havn't had full penetration then you are still a virgin.

Just be gentle with yourself and pamper yourself a bit, go out with your friends and gradually you will start to feel better and you will realise your all well and good.




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