Can someone give me some advice?!


Question: Can someone give me some advice?
I've been feeling unhappy lately and feeling like my life sucks and I've been trying to figure out why and the best possible reason why I've been feeling unhappy is because I have no success and wealth in life,

If I had money and success I think I would be a lot happier and I don't define success the way other people would.

I'm a real failure at a lot of things and life and I just would like to ask if I had a lot of success would I be happy?

Answers:

We all go through those low points in life where we feel hopeless, but you have to Work for your own success, no one else is in charge of it but yourself. If other things fail you have to keep on trying until you find what your looking for and what makes you happy. I know your probably thinking we don't understand, but i have certain days when i'm in your shoes. Money solves ALOT of problems, but it doesn't determine ALL of them. Goodluck [:



Let me warn you before hand. You may honestly think that the only way you would be happy is being successful and have wealth you may be disappointed just so you know. Anyways I strongly believe you have to look at things in a positive way in order to be happy you can't be negative because you'll never truely be satisfied yes acknowledge you have not accomplished but you don't fail anything until you've given up.so don't feel like you've failed at many things but always think that you can still try and never give up have to faith and hope in yourself. You need to look at your situation in a positive outlook. Reevaluate the problem ok so this hasn't worked out let me try this and so on don't give up you aren't a failure until you've given up. Hope you find happiness within yourself so others could see it as well



Keep on trying man. dont give up on life yet, it isnt that bad! think about waht you have, and what your skills are! think about all youve accomplished over the last 2 years, where your hard work has gotten you. think of ways you can improve! think about how there are people right now, who dont have a home to live in, who cant complain about how life sucks on yahoo answers..
not trying to put you down even more, come on! its the weekend dude! its time to forget about the rest of the world and focus on what would make YOU happy. quit trying to please everyone else, and think about what YOU want. go out and have a good time! maybe hit up the movies! call up some friends and throw a party, go rape people in video games or just get a big thing of ice cream and watch comedy central until you pass out.
life aint that bad man,

take it from me



Maybe... but maybe not. For most people, there's always "something more" that they think they need to achieve to "really be happy." If you can figure out exactly what you feel like you are underachieving at, set some goals for yourself. Then put your energy into reaching them. I see a lot of patients who think happiness is a result of outside circumstances, but the truth is that it's a choice (unless you have a chemical imbalance, of course!). We can either choose to keep putting ourselves down and feel unhappy, or decide to better ourselves and try to be happy while we're doing it! Good luck!



you just gotta try and find something that will make you feel useful. a psychologist may be better at talking to you and help you to see the glass half full instead of half empty. i used to talk to one and he actually helped. i was surprised. :)



hey its okay----
try recreational theripy itll help u get ovr some stuff and how u feel...ur not a faliar, u can always change the present and u some times have to let go of the past.

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Yes, obviously.

Where else do people derive happiness from?

Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.

Those people suck at life too and come up with all kinds of cheesy and silly things to "feel happy about".



Try to remain optimistic about things. Avoid the negative aura's. Get into Religion, specifically Christianity.



1-800-442-HOPE. Call them :)



Go see a doc. aLL i CAN SAY




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