Why dont i like hugs or kisses?!


Question: Why dont i like hugs or kisses?
Now i was skepticql about asking this question because i didNt want it 2 seem as though im trying 2 get attenion and i was goin 2 tell u part of my life story but thats a way of looking for attention but why do i get mad when family or girlfriends hug or kiss me i mean i try not 2 get mad but it feels so....wrong and weird and i feel like i want 2 hurt them whn they do these things. I was gonna figure it out 4 myself but i cant i need help....sorry 4 wasten ur time

Answers:

Dont worry your not trying to attract attention:P
With your family, its reallly okward, well for me at least, my parents and ENTIRE family are every "touchy-feely" type.
How oldd are you??
mabey your not ready? mabey you have some type of phobia you dont even know yet:) its just a phase and youll get through it/over it, mabey its not even with the right girl( once again, i dont know your life storyLOL) but just try differnt ways to show affection.
Hope For The Best!!

me:)



You could have intimacy problems or something like that. I say you should see a psychiatrist if it's really bad. You could be supressing memories so when you hug and kiss it's shown with a negative feeling.



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You could have an introverted personality, I tend to be very introverted and for me "hugs and kisses" produce an awkward feeling although never an angry feeling, but not all introverts are the same.

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Introversion is "the state of or tendency toward being wholly or predominantly concerned with and interested in one's own mental life".[3] Introverts are people whose energy tends to expand through reflection and dwindle during interaction.[4] Introverts tend to be more reserved and less outspoken in large groups. They often take pleasure in solitary activities such as reading, writing, music, drawing, tinkering, playing video games, watching movies and plays, and using computers, along with some more reserved outdoor activities such as fishing and hiking. In fact, social networking sites have been a thriving home for introverts in the 21st century, where introverts are free from the formalities of social conduct and may become more comfortable blogging about personal feelings they would not otherwise disclose. The archetypal artist, writer, sculptor, engineer, composer, and inventor are all highly introverted. An introvert is likely to enjoy time spent alone and find less reward in time spent with large groups of people, though he or she may better enjoy interactions with a small group of close friends. Trust is usually an issue of significance—a virtue of utmost importance—to an introvert choosing a worthy companion. They prefer to concentrate on a single activity at a time and like to observe situations before they participate, especially observed in developing children and adolescents.[5] Introverts are easily overwhelmed by too much stimulation from social gatherings and engagement. They are more analytical before speaking.[6]

Introversion is not necessarily the same as shyness or the social outcast. Introverts choose solitary over social activities by preference. Whereas shy people—who may be extroverts at heart—avoid social encounters out of fear[7] and the social “outcast” not by choice.
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