What are good things to do to get my mind off stuff?!


Question: What are good things to do to get my mind off stuff?
I get bullied, and I never can get the guy out of my mind. Whenever I'm actually having fun, he just has to go into my mind. I just want to focus on fun, and I hate having flashbacks... Also it's hard for me to get to sleep at night, because I know each day I'll either see him, or it's coming closer to Monday, and I don't want this jerk to dominate my life. Last dream I remember having is a bad dream about him actually... I want to clear my mind. And actually enjoy life, and look forward to something other then getting brought down by him. I'm 14, I need at least a little fun.
So, what should I do?

Answers:

..Hi there, What you are in fact trying to do, is remain in denial that this is even happening to you, and you will never, ever, be able to do this, not for very long anyway..You are being bullied, abused if you will, and this is I assume an everyday fear that may occur..You will have to tell someone in authority so this can get resolved, and the sooner the better before something even more tragic happens to you or someone else..Stand up against bullying!..The fear you have inside of you will not go away until you finally deal with this, in fact it will get even worse because you are trying so hard to keep it a secret and deny it when in truth, it needs to be brought out into the open today if possible..At the very least, tell your parents please..Once this is dealt with properly, it will cease to have any affect on you or your dreams...Take care of you...



First of all, does anyone know you are being bullied? Can you speak to anyone at home or school about it? It's going to be very hard to distract yourself from worrying about him if each day at school he is giving you a hard time.
Sorry this doesn't really answer your question, but I think they only way you are going to solve your problem is if this idiot stops bullying you then you won't need to worry about him



First thing you need to do is stand up and handla that jerk! I know its weird but tell and adult.. I was bullied and im 14! I told my mom and she went to the Counselor and they handled him and I never heard from him again! They wont go up to him and say STOP BULLYING HER but they willl end the bullying!!!!!!
And what I do to remove stress and stuff is get involved in a sport or just go for a walk.

What I would do if I were you is come up with a really good comeback or just say I have had enough of your CRAP!




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