Am I Crazy For Doing This..What Do You Think?!

You're not crazy, but I want you to read what I have to say and then think about it.

The pretty, the popular and the confident people are always competing. If it's getting a boyfriend/girlfriend, having their first kiss, losing their virginity, getting drunk etc.
They will do this forever and nothing you do will change them. You can't put yourself in the same competition. Not because you can't beat them, but because it's a stupid game that makes everyone self-conscious and stressed. If you try to play this game you will get so desperate one night you will make a huge mistake.
You need to play a different game. It's called self-improvement. If you want to lose weight, start eating healthier and exercising more. Say goodbye to those snacks you eat everyday and start making better choices. Start going for a walk every evening, and when you get more confident go for a jog.
Try working on your confidence. Give a compliment to someone you don't know very well.
As for getting boys to like you, it's a lot easier if you forget about it. You're not going to wake up tomorrow and they'll just start going for you. If you work really hard on your fitness and your confidence, you'll be surprised what happens.
I know these things are really hard, but if you're not satisfied with your life you have to work really hard to change it. I want you to wake up tomorrow and give everything I've suggested your best try.

Good luck and take care of yourself :)

no your not crazy but that is crazy. you may think your fat and ugly but to someone else your a diamond in the ruff TRUST ME! i didnt think i was all that hansom i had low self esteem until gurls started throwin they self at me and that gave me the confidence that i have till this day how can some one else like you if you dont like your self your fine and just keep lettin your self no that

Those are interesting tactics. You're not crazy.

There's a slight risk people might tease you if they find out you're doing some of these moves.

Otherwise they seem fine: you're helping other people see you in a different way.

why are you torturing yourself?
and I never had a boyfriend in high school either. and I did just fine.

Occupational Therapist

Alright here you go, I am 21 and because of my low self esteem I had my first girlfriend few months ago, and now that I am a bit better of how I used to be, women might come and tell me that I look nice etc etc. I am not a hollywood model but I am not nothing, I refuse to be nothing. and something else, quit facebook, what I realize from myself using facebook is that I try to make my life better by watching other people`s activities when it clearly make me more depressed. Quit facebook and do something that you always wanted to do. climbing? rowing ? dunno what do you like, just do something you like. Nobody can change yourself except yourself. and nobody is crazy, everyone just thinks differently.