I feel like I am losing my mind help please?!


Question: I feel like I am losing my mind help please?
This may seem like such a stupid, dumb question. But Im worried. Please dont be cruel or mean.
I am 20 and for some reason my mind keeps thinking I am not a virgin, even though my ex boyfriend said I am as we never had sex. I even told my friends some of the things that me and my ex did and they said I am a virgin. My mind does this to me a lot of the times with other things as well ( I over analyze things sometimes). I keep thinking I might not be a virgin even though my ex said I am. He has no doubt about that as he is also a virgin as well and we never had sex. Please help me. I dont know what to do. I have no idea why I am thinking this way. A couple of days ago, I knew I was a virgin. I mean I have evidence that states that I am a virgin. Like I said to my ex 2 months ago: "Is it bad that I want to lose my virginity to you?" We were on skype when I said this. I never saw him after this skype conservation. So why the hell am I all of a sudden thinking Im not a virgin???!!! Serious answers only please. The reason why it is a big deal to me is because I want to stay a virgin until I am married. I want to know why all of a sudden I am thinking this.
Please dont be rude.

Answers:

This idea of virginity is based on religious beliefs. It sounds like you might have a little scrupulosity streak in you, and if you've never heard of this before, it's basically a form of Obsessive Compulsive disorder that is based on whether or not you've remained faithful to your religion.

You might need a therapist or some kind of consultation from a priest or rabbi.

Do whatever it is that will help you heal and deal with whatever is causing you this anxiety and finally feel at peace with yourself spiritually.



you are not.....................................… virgin get over it



I am not saying this to you to be mean.But it may be that if you performed any kind of sexual activity on your boy friend such as oral sex or even a hand job.That you feel guilty.To many people this is considered the actual sex act.It really depends on how you were raised.If your family taught you that it is sex then in your mind you believe it is.That makes you feel that you are not a virgin.I really tried to be as nice as I could.Good luck honey.




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