I'm having Suicidal thoughts..?!


Question: I'm having Suicidal thoughts..?
I don't know where to start. My parents treat me as if I don't exist.They don't encourage anything I like. I'm fourteen. I get mostly good grades,but they've been falling down since I'm having such thoughts. My friends treat me like some freak. I told one of my friends about my recent suicidal thoughts, ad he said that he didn't care. I'm Indian, and my city does not have some counselor that i can talk to. I'm obviously not going to tell my parents. They wouldnt care anyways.Life has no purpose. With summer holidays going on, i just sit on bed all day, and wish for a time it'll stop.
And dont say that i'm trying to die just because i have nothing to do, I've been thinking over this since 4 months or so. Tell me how to cope with this, or how to die a painless death. My friend told me cyanide would work, but i dont have enough money to purchase a bottle.

Answers:

Listen mate,
NOBODY said life was going to be easy,
Life DOES have its ups and downs but you can't have a rainbow without a little rain eh?
Now mate think about this,
Think about your future and how great it's going to be, dream about everything you want to do, maybe you want to get married and have kids. Think about all the fun stuff life has to offer such as ski-ing and White water rafting, snowboarding mountain climbing parachuting bunjee jumping think about everything you can achieve, do you really want to leave this world without leaving your Mark?
Once you have thought about all the exciting stuff you would love to achieve in your life, think about death....
Good luck mate if you need someone to talk to there are plenty of nice people in this world.... But trust me when I say this the teenage years ARE so hard, we all were teenagers once and even I was suicidal when I was a teenager over a stupid girl,
Life DOES get better
Stay well mate.

Life.



I would highly recommend some professional help here. What you are saying sounds quite serious, and I do think you should talk to a psychologist. Keep in mind that something good might be just around the corner, so why miss those chances? Killing yourself is never an option!

If you want a good and cheap psychologist I can recommend a guy who uses skype, His screen name is devil5oh4 and don't let that name scare you. He is great, cheap, and helped me through my crises!



I'm sorry you are feeling thay way... :( if your friends treat you that bad they are NOT worth your time. :P Try taking to your parents and tell them you feel like they neglect you. Your life is so precious. Its not worth killing yourself over. :) If you kill yourself there would never be another person like you.. Hang in there buddy (: Stay strong



You have to save some money and go to a doc. You can get antidepressants. They helped me



I'm sorry you are going through such a hard time.
But there is no 'painless death'--and cyanide is definitely NOT painless--so put that thought right out of your head.
Many times parents don't realize how they may be ignoring their children because they get so wrapped up in their own jobs and responsibilities.
You wrote that you 'obviously' won't tell your parents because they won't care.
I honestly think you should tell them--at least your mom. i think she would be terribly heartbroken if anything was ever to happen to you.
Tell your mom how unhappy you are and that you are scared and need her support to get through this.
You may have a chemical reason for feeling this way and need a psychiatrist. But, for now at least, don't sit around in bed as it will make you feel worse. get up and out and find things to keep busy. often helping someone else makes us feel good too. Ask your mom how you could help her. Ask neighbors if they need some company or help.
Exercise releases 'endorphins' in the body, which help to relieve stress and make you feel better--so when someone suggests to take a walk--it really does help.
Good luck.

25 years psych healthcare



SUICIDE
Our hearts go out to those who have thoughts of ending their own lives through suicide. If that is you right now, it may speak of many emotions, such as feelings of hopelessness and despair. You may feel like you are in the deepest pit, and you doubt there is any hope of things getting better. No one seems to care or understand where you are coming from. Life just is not worth living...or is it?

If you will take a few moments to consider letting God truly be God in your life right now, He will prove how big He really is, “for nothing is impossible with God” (Bible). Perhaps scars from past hurts have resulted in an overwhelming sense of rejection or abandonment. That may lead to self-pity, anger, bitterness, vengeful thoughts, or unhealthy fears that have caused problems in some of your most important relationships.

Why suicide? Friend, no matter how bad things are in your life, there is a God of love who is waiting for you to let Him guide you through your tunnel of despair and out into His marvelous light. He is your sure hope. His name is Jesus. Jesus Christ endured all this so that you might have all your sins forgiven. Whatever weight of guilt you carry, know that He will forgive you if you humbly receive Him as your Savior. “...Call upon me in the day of trouble; I will deliver you...” (Psalm 50:15). Nothing you have ever done is too bad for Jesus to forgive.
Friend, God stands ready to repair what is “broken,” namely, the life you have now, the life you want to end by suicide. Come to Jesus, and let Him restore your joy and usefulness as you trust Him to begin a new work in your life. He promises to restore the joy you have lost and give you a new spirit to sustain you. If you desire to trust Jesus Christ as your Savior, speak these words in your heart to God: “God, I need you in my life. Please forgive me for all that I have done. I place my faith in Jesus Christ and believe that He is my Savior. Please cleanse me, heal me, and restore my joy in life. Thank You for Your love for me and for Jesus' death on my behalf.” Contact for further help: interact24@yahoo.in



Well first of all your friends won't understand you because their 14 years old and they have'nt been through much hormonal changes yet(adding the fact they havent experienced much of life at all), which does'nt mean their going to be depressed, but you seem to have a selfconfidence problem. Im still only 15, but ive been through ALOT of rough mental experience, and i understand where your coming from. All i can really say is to look at things in a positive way, and have confidence in yourself no matter what. Trust me, you'll see when your older that the things you worry about now are just silly. Dont care about what people think, and believe in yourself. Anybody can make a change in this world if they just put thier mind to it, and i know you are a stronge person, dont give up.



We all feel like that in some point of our life's. Even I have.
Im turning 16 in a few days and Im fully gay. My whole school knows it and I get bullied for it but there is always a better side to these things. I go with what some of the people say so if they say:
"Wanna ************?"
I would say back:
"Sure, come here!"

I guess what im trying to say is don't be to hard on yourself and just wait a few months or so. Maybe things will turn around for you. Or start a hobby. I do photography and design things?

Just give it a chance, Because I did. :))

Me



Ok Woahh Suicide is Never the answer. you're fourteen you have your whole life ahead of you.
If you get these thoughts often, you might be suffering from a mental illness such as depression or bi-polar disorder. these are perfectly treatable.

If you want some help talk to a doctor about getting prescribed to lithium, a common mood stabilizer taken 3 times a day, trust me it will be worth it.

If your friends are treating you like that, you really should change who you're hanging around, especially if they're encouraging it.

The facts about suicide is about 30% of the time they don't work. and you'd have to live with what's left of you. please don't do anything harmful to yourself. if the thoughts are really strong don't act on them, call 911 or the national suicide hot line 1-800-273-8255
They will listen to you and talk to you.

I hope i helped.

I too am fourteen. and suffer from Bi-polar disorder. and used to have such thoughts.




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