i want to end it all?!


Question: I want to end it all?
recently my lives just going down the drain, i lost my job and my relationship is being affected by all of this, the past few weeks where ever i go i ask my self with it help me end it all.
i used to be bullied and have counselling but when i moved schools i no longer had any of this support, i have really severe mood swings, either being ecstatic or being so depressed i lock my self away from the world, when i tried to make a doctors appointment they said i live too far away, i need to know what to do with my self as I'm scared I'm going to do something that is going to affect all of my immediate family :/

Answers:

Dude I know how you are feeling. When I was at school I had a boyfriend of 3yrs. We had an on and off relationship and he would use psychological threats to get me back when we broke up,it was draining emotionally ,after two years of not seeing anyone else we became so close we spoke of marrying after school. It was during my final exams that we broke up,he was seeing another girl,someone whom was prepared to put out where I was'nt. It hurt like hell,it felt as if my heart had been ripped out ,stamped on and placed back. The stress from the exams,this ,my parents divorcing,ruptured appendix, it just all took its toll.One night ,I knew what I had to do so I took a blade and slit my wrist. I did not do it properly but enough to scare my mom,she sent me to live with mmy grandma. After a few months I started to go out ,two guys decided they needed to cheer me up.They helped me heal and I met my husband,we have been married 18 yrs now. I have two children and a crappy job,that pays me in turd. And I struggle to make ends meet but when I look at my children I thank God that I never succeeded.The saying time heals all wound is true but you have to take steps to start the healing. First get some sleep and onto a vitamin B supplement. Two join a gym or something social. Three go back to hunting for a job,you will get one. four talk to your spouse tell her what is happening,discuss the future...now make sure there is one. Because your suffering will pass and you will be glad you never killed yourself.

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You need to talk to someone, wether it be a friend or family member or a neutral party. You need to talk to someone about what your feeling and get it off your chest. If you need to go to the closest ER. They will be able to provide you help and assistants with your problem.Depression is very treatable and your life can be turned around. It sounds like your young so the possibilities of you getting better quicker are on your side. Dont end it all its not worth it, it wont solve your problems and do you really wanna hurt your family like that. Take more action to get help, a few years down the line your appreciate that you did.



hey from the sounds of it your only young and even though life may be dull at the minute theirs still a light at the end of the tunnel it may take a month or so to get to it but once your their life will be great. No matter what you do, what you fail at, what you lose. theres always going to be another chance to get it back or get somethink even better. Just keep moving on :)



u need to get to a doctor and get on med or take urself to the hospital and tell them u need help and the doc's wont help google ur area and see where the nearest counselling centre is to u and get urself to it



think about the pain youd put on the people who love you. Take Zoloft . Im on it for suicidal thoughts and depression it cured me



Is there a friend you could talk to or what about going to school online.



yes say hello to the real world, life can be very hard, some times things just happen and it just aint fair but its what you do about them that count, you can sit about feeling sorry for your self or you can dust your self down, get back up again and put your life back on track.
you lost your job, find another one, if you had access to a PC to post this question you can write a C-V and send it with a cover letter to potential employers.
its all done by e-mail these days if you did just 5 a day that is 25 a week.
as for your Doctors you just need to go to your local Doctors and ask them if you can move there,
its then just a case of filling in a form.
i know its easy to throw the towel in and give up but for your own sake you should sort your problems out not just give up

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i have been the immediate family effected by suicide. its an awful thing to go through but for me it was not realising the person you love is suffering so much and you didnt see it. so, you need to talk to a professional, the fact you are aware there is an issue is the first thing. it means you can change it all. there must be more doctors you can see? if not, call the samaritans (assuming you are in the uk) or hopeline - 0800 068 4141 and please dont be embarrassed about it, they will help and give you advice on who to talk to or the next step for you. you should also talk to your partner, if they love you they will understand and help you. you can do it xx




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