My Boyfriend Is Depressed And Really Violent, I'm Scared?!


Question: My Boyfriend Is Depressed And Really Violent, I'm Scared?
Okay so he's only 18 and I'm 15 and we've been together for a year and I love him very much it's just that sometimes his darker side can scare me and I think one day he might "snap." He's had a seriously abusive childhood, like his parents demoralized and abused him in everyway possible, and he got bullied terribly in elementary and middle school. He has clinical depression and was suicidal before but you could never tell that by looking at him. He has a lot of friends and is ALWAYS smiling and laughing no matter what and looks happy. But he has some very rare days where he breaks down and he cries uncontrollably on my shoulder an it's really sad:(

The worst part is that he's really violent and gets into a lot of fist fights. He's obsessed with his body and looking good and HATES fat people and thinks they should be killed :/ He works out HARDCORE for like 2 hours a day, when he's done he has no energy at all and can't move and his knuckles bleed all the time from hitting his punching bag even though he has gloves on. And kinda embarrassing to say, but during sex he sometimes bites me hard enough to make me bleed. I don' know what to do, is there anyway I can get him to be calmer or help him out?

Answers:

Ummmmm, possibly what he is doing is harming your well being. You shouldn't be having sex at your current age! It can ruin your life if you don't use protection (not the case for everyone) and biting during sex is kind of unnatural is that your kind fetish? because you being the women of the relationship you have every say to what he can do, and not do to your body! If he is scaring you, you should talk to him about it and say you don't feel comfortable around him and see if he changes. Other than that what he is doing is considered rape by law and if your parents don't know and find out he can go to jail and be registered as a sex offender.

Best wishes to you



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