How can I help my friend? I'm very scared!?!


Question: How can I help my friend? I'm very scared!?
I was changing in the locker room after gym and my best friend was in there. I happened to notice that she has about 5 small cuts on her hip just above her jeans. I didn't say anything because I was scared and didn't know what to do. I don't know why she would cut because she is a very happy girl. I just don't want her to get hurt. How can I help her with this on my own without telling anyone else? Please be serious and I don't want to tell an adult right away if I don't have to since I really don't know anything and don't wanna make a big scene. Help! :,(

Answers:

Talk to her. Let her know you care, let her know you won't tell anyone, and let her know that you will do anything you can to help. Threatening to tell some one will only ruin your relationship. You should really try to help her before you try more serious things like telling her parents, a teacher, or some one else.



you help by asking her about it, ask her why she does it, and try to come up with a solution with her. cutting does nothing but possible scars, unless you are trying to kill yourself, cutting leads to suicide if the problem is not fixed

get your friend hooked on weed, she will never cut herself again

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IdFor8mKqLs
dont watch this video



ask her she might have fell or something. there could be a perfectly good explination. until you ask her, you won't know how you can help her as you won't know enough about it x

me



Did you ask if it was an accident ?




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