Is it rude to dump someone over text messaging?!


Question: Is it rude to dump someone over text messaging?
So I am 20 years old and i have been hooking up with this guy for 2 months now. We have not had sex yet, but the only time he contacts me is when he wants to hang out and we only hang out in his bed. He gets mad when I refuse to have sex with him.
Last time I saw him i told him i would have sex with him the next time i saw him because I felt ready.

Then i realized that was such a stupid decision and i really shouldn't do that, especially since i am a virgin and realized he isn't worthy of my virginity and that I will regret it.

So how should I tell him I think we should stop seeing each other? I promised him we would have sex so now it's gonna look like I led him on. He already accused me of "teasing him" every time I see him because i don't give him sex, which i think is rude.

Should I do it over text? Or is that not appropriate? and i don't know what to say without him getting mad, i kinda feel like i led him on even though i didn't mean to. What should i do? How can I avoid him hating me?

Answers:

You don't owe him sex . . you have a right to change your mind. . .and it's not uncommon for guys to get all pissy when they don't score. . .don'y worry about it. Tell him you're not ready. If he's a jerk . . well . . so be it



Remember that safety comes first.




The consumer health information on answer-health.com is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice or treatment for any medical conditions.
The answer content post by the user, if contains the copyright content please contact us, we will immediately remove it.
Copyright © 2007-2011 answer-health.com -   Terms of Use -   Contact us

Health Categories