I want to kill myself. help!?!


Question: I want to kill myself. help!?
I just turned 14, btw im adopted & I get these feelings. I bored of everything. It last for about 1min. & i tryed to kill myself 2 times. The first time when i was 13, i ate a handful of pills, & about 10-15min i blinked out. I woke up in the hospital. I was almost there...the doctor asked me did I try to kill myself, & I said, no..I didn't feel so good so I got the pills & I didn't know how much to take so I took 5pills..I think she knew I was lying because 3 more doctors came in now everytime I go to the doctor. Its about 4-3 in the room..2nd time the age I am now.14..2weeks ago, I was in school & I was havin fun talking to my friends. & then the same feelin came. Bored with everything.So I asked my teacher can I go to the bathroom. & I did. I looked at myself but I didn't have anything to kill myself with. So I tryed to hit my head on anything hard. But didn't work. It just got me a hikey & a bloody nose.Fail. Help plz everytime I get the feelin. I'm not scared..Help I'm sitting here listening to music.

Answers:

It's probably cus something major in your life happened or something but if it keeps happening I suggest you should tell your parents n see a doctor about it..



you get one life in life so why waste it being sad or depressed. Don't kill yourself contact help talk to someone, get into activities there's is nth that should make you wish you were dead. Get out into the world and experience new things and I dnt mean drugs I mean life play sports be more social talk to someone contact that number the person posted plz just dnt kill ur self it's not worth it.

hope things go well

experience



1-800-273-8255 suicide hotline. It's free. They are the best ones that can help.



You should probably talk to somebody. being depressed and suicidal is really not good! there are a lot of people who would be devistated if that were to ever happen to you. keep your chin up!



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It sounds like you are borderline schizophrenic or sociopath. Trying to kill yourself by blunt trauma shows without a doubt, that you are very mentally sick. No offense, but you REQUIRE some type of inpatient psychiatric care. The psychiatric ward of most hospitals is very pleasant. You will probably enjoy it, you will receive the help you need and learn a lot, plus it's time off school. Please talk to your parents and get psychiatric help immediately...Remember, my writing is only a non-biased OPINION, the decision is ALL you.

Personal Experience and in medical field.



dude. im 19 and my name is justin too. im also adopted . from Ukraine. my life is so messed up. I currently have no job. Im a convicted felon. on parole for 6 months then have probation for 3 years, this may not chear you up but just remember . there is always someone who has it worse than u. DONT kill yourself. i used to cut myself and do stupid ****. you might have these feelings but don;t do it. think of your family. don't do something as stupid as that. when i was young i wanted to kill myself to. but i didn.t . life can be worse. but it will get better. trust me. i still have scars btw a remider of how stupid i was . dont do it. life will get better for u.



Ok, I know it doesn't mean much coming from a random answerer on Yahoo answers, but read this carefully. There is NOTHING in the world that could make suicide worth it. You might hit some rough times, but that's still no reason to end your life. I'm sure there's someone in your life you could talk to, and if not, a school counselor or friend is a good choice. If you don't know why you feel like that, it might be because of medications. Sometimes they give you those feelings. If you are not on medications, but you don't know why you feel the way you do, it's because of hormones. I can't explain to you about the science of it, but the feelings will pass. But seriously, think about this: You are only 14, and you have so much in life ahead of you. You have so much to give to the world. Even if you feel like this now, I promise you won't feel the same in a few years. I've been where you are before, and I know how you feel. I dealt with it by occupying my time with certain activities that I enjoyed. Trust me. There IS hope. It DOES get better. Just hang in there, and you'll see what I'm talking about. Suicide is NOT the answer, nor will it ever be.



SUICIDE
Our hearts go out to those who have thoughts of ending their own lives through suicide. If that is you right now, it may speak of many emotions, such as feelings of hopelessness and despair. You may feel like you are in the deepest pit, and you doubt there is any hope of things getting better. No one seems to care or understand where you are coming from. Life just is not worth living...or is it?

If you will take a few moments to consider letting God truly be God in your life right now, He will prove how big He really is, “for nothing is impossible with God” (Bible). Perhaps scars from past hurts have resulted in an overwhelming sense of rejection or abandonment. That may lead to self-pity, anger, bitterness, vengeful thoughts, or unhealthy fears that have caused problems in some of your most important relationships.

Why suicide? Friend, no matter how bad things are in your life, there is a God of love who is waiting for you to let Him guide you through your tunnel of despair and out into His marvelous light. He is your sure hope. His name is Jesus. Jesus Christ endured all this so that you might have all your sins forgiven. Whatever weight of guilt you carry, know that He will forgive you if you humbly receive Him as your Savior. “...Call upon me in the day of trouble; I will deliver you...” (Psalm 50:15). Nothing you have ever done is too bad for Jesus to forgive.
Friend, God stands ready to repair what is “broken,” namely, the life you have now, the life you want to end by suicide. Come to Jesus, and let Him restore your joy and usefulness as you trust Him to begin a new work in your life. He promises to restore the joy you have lost and give you a new spirit to sustain you. If you desire to trust Jesus Christ as your Savior, speak these words in your heart to God: “God, I need you in my life. Please forgive me for all that I have done. I place my faith in Jesus Christ and believe that He is my Savior. Please cleanse me, heal me, and restore my joy in life. Thank You for Your love for me and for Jesus' death on my behalf.” Contact for further help: interact24@yahoo.in



no you dont want to harm yourself these are shouts for help so do it properly and tell your parents it is very likely to do with issues of rejection issues from the adoption process that is distracting your motivations. learn to appreciate events and people it will help with insights. go for an active interest in something rather than following on. a counselllor rather than a doctor they give out labels too readily that can have serious consequences. the body + subconscience will fight self infliction making it difficult to self destruct. our problems are our humanity therefore you are not alone and a huge no. share your difficulty talking will help maybe start an adoption forum



I think you should talk to the doctors again , and this time tell them about his strange feeling you get before you try to kill yourself, because they could have soem good answers about what that is.
You could ask them to test your hormones as well, and that would include yoru thyroid , sex,adrenal, and also your blood sugar.
I happen to think also, that this may be based in something you have repressed in your own mind, or simply that you have thoughts and feelings about being adopted that you have not talked about and resolved.
There is only one method I know of that would help you quickly with resolving any pain from your past and your feelings about your adoption, and that is eftuniverse.com click on 'get started free', and therapists at eftmastersworldwide.com
I think you shoudl realize that this method is very profound at resolving all kinds of pain and it doesn't come back. So that is why I think it would help you with your feelings coming up and any past pain, or memories, even if you don't remember what it is. It can still help. At least you could contact one of the therapists you like and let them know and ask them what they think , and then find someone in your area to help you heal all your pain.
This method works really well.
So, I am saying you have to find if there is any physical problem, which you have to tell the doctors the truth, and then find the right therapist to help you.
You can Heal.
Find it. Do it.
Hug yourself and get going, tomorrow.
Or if you are going to harm yourself anyway, then call the police and tell your carers, parents, or someone.
Here are some teen groups you might like
startstrongteens.org giverespect.org loveisnotabuse.com loveisrespect.com teenrelationships.com

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Suicidal ideation is a medical emergency.

You need URGENT HELP. You need to talk to your psychiatrist and/or counselor stat. Hospitalization with closed monitoring may be necessary if this urge to kill your self persists.

You also need to talk to your adoptive parents about it, if you haven’t done already. If there is any problems interacting with them then it has to be brought to the notice of your doctor and/or counselors so that they could try to intervene. If your relation with them is good then there shouldn’t be any issues, let them clearly know what is happening in your mind.

There are treatment options including medications, therapies etc that might extinguish or dilute the suicidal ideations that is bothering you. The bottomline is you need urgent pychiatric intervention.

You can use the above hotline # as well.

All the Best.

Regards,

Neurologist.



I'm sorry that you're in so much pain. You've tried to end your life before, and that really worries me. You may have symptoms of depression, and please realize that you will NOT always feel so sad and lonely. There is viable treatment out there for those with mental health problems.

Please do call that toll-free 24-Hour helpline for those who are suicidal: 1-800-273-8255

Edit: Please do NOT give yourself a head injury or harm yourself in any way, for that matter. Please remember that telling someone about your emotional pain and sadness can help you to start to feel better.

For anyone, please do NOT inhale ANY types of fumes or chemical vapors also known as "huffing". My friend has a Traumatic Brain Injury (TBI) from inhalant use at the age of 12, now in her 30s. For more information about the dangers of huffing - National Inhalant Prevention Coalition: http://www.inhalants.org



Hi Justin, how r u,
uhm, i don't know what to say about this, people would say you need to go to the doctors or something like these, i wouldn't.
Let me ask you some questions before you try to kill yourself again (people don't laugh):
What is life for you?, what's the point to be alive?, why you are here?, how you could be happy and stuff?
Let me try to answers those questions and please try as well:
Life is just a basket of experiences and we just go inside of it, and play with it, it's like a pool of little balls where you go inside and have fun with your friends.
Second questions is about the reason to be alive, and I could tell that everybody in the world is here for something, we are alive because we were so lucky to came to this world and be happy and make people happy.
The third question is why we are here...to be happy, look to be happy and make people happy, we came here to be together and help each other, no wars, no languages, just one team and look for happiness and love and be loved.
My last question was how to be happy... and the answer is in you, you need to read, play, laugh, cry, kiss, like, dislike, sleep, talk, meet people, study, drink, fall in love, play again, help people, work, eat, party...have you done all of them? not yet, me neither, even a person who has 70 years old who have done all of them is looking to experience more, you are 14, im 27, and we are all in the same boat, we need to be happy and make people happy, just remember that.
When you get bored again, think deeply about the reason to be here, breath and forget those boring feelings, it's no time to think about that, you live just once and just enjoy it

own experience



It definitely sounds like you may have some sort of mood disorder - the fact that you can be totally calm, happy one moment and then you get an overwhelming urge to hurt yourself definitely indicates something's wrong. I strongly suggest you speak to your doctor or parents (ideally both) about how you've been feeling. No one will judge you or be angry - your family loves you and will help you. Many mental illnesses are highly treatable. It's not worth the risk to ignore this any longer. Please seek help :). Good luck.




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