Why am do I always end up the bad guy in these situations?!
Question: Why am do I always end up the bad guy in these situations?
Answers:
You DO have a reason to be genuinely upset and it is called being abused. You have been threatened , and he was hit, that is physical and verbal threats and violence. That is abuse. That is illegal. The police can be called and she can be reported.
Some people with mental illness, and bi polar is a difficult illness for the person and people around them, but it is not an excuse to treat others abusively, and to harm others. That has to stop.
It would be good for you to call the non emergency line of the police in your area , explain what has happened and her diagnosis, and what can you do about it , and what would they do about it.
The chances are she would be taken to some kind of hospital, or nothing at all , except to tell you to take her to the doctors .
Start finding out how to deal with it, it sounds liek your mom needs some help also, in dealing with her, and what to do when she gets violent.
NO ONE should have to live with that for any reason.
Find the help you all need, and her also.
Find the therapists in yoru area that deal with it, and the doctors.
You can remove the damage done to you and your bf with eft eftuniverse.com click on 'get started free' for the free self help version, and therapists at eftmastersworldwide.com these may be able to help her as well.
I also would recommend that she /your mom /have her see a hormone expert, since over 20% of bi polars are thought to have thyroid imbalances contributing, or other hormone imbalances. She can find a doctor like this by calling a compounding pharmacy in your area and asking what doctors test and balance hormones. You could do this as well, just for.
Or she could contact these people thehallcenter.com feelingfff.com or your mom could talk to people at thecanaryclub.org
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