How do you learn to be happy again?!


Question: How do you learn to be happy again?
Hi, I was wondering how you can learn to be happy after a hard break up. I didn't really have any closure and I don't know if he loves me back or not. Like sometimes I'll be watching a movie and the guy proposes to the girl and I just cry because it makes me so sad because I wish I was her. Serious answers only.

Answers:

Time works wonders on the emotions. Everything changes eventually. You may look back one day and wonder why you were so unhappy, because change brings new possibilities, even though it feels like your heart has been pulled out through your left nostril and left dangling.

Try to focus on what could be good about it, some of the things you maybe didn't like about the relationship, Throw yourself into activities you enjoy.

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It's been a while, but sometimes it takes a while. Break your patterns that put you back into those feelings. Change your surroundings. Paint your bedroom. Put away old photos. Change your pattern of behavior you repeat every time you start to feel bad about it, and then go do something else fun. Find yourself some friends even online. Consider going to a meetup group for an activity you like to do, and meet new people.



Getting over a hard breakup well is hard. Ha you need to try and get yourself back out there and try to forget that since it was the past. If he truly loved you then you would know. No guy would give up an amazing girl in my opinion. As for closure, you can just ask him to see what was up. That always seem to happen to me.



Break up is the most horrible thing to happen if you really loved that person. But then there are million worse things that could have happened other than this break up. So look at the bright side of your life and cheer up.
You mentioned that you don't have friends. I would suggest you to go online and start chatting to kill your time or grab a novel.
Do what you like the most and haven't done for a long time.

My experience!



If you are having a hard time after a break-up, I think you better spend more time with your family and friends and be happy with them. Don't think that much of the guy. I am sure that you will find someone who is better than him, who is deserving for you. You should move on! :)



A happy song, usually one that reminds you of times in the past where you never had that particular person to start with. I love you.




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