What would you think? I cannot belive I am 32 years old and I am asking total st!
Question: What would you think? I cannot belive I am 32 years old and I am asking total strangers via the internet?
I have 2 kids with my highschool sweetheart, we are no longer together,but always been best friends in fact he is now remarried and has 2 more kids with her. In January, the kids and I moved in with them in a different town to try something new. All was well, but I really needed to get out of the house and gain some sort of social life. So I turned to the internet and met a really nice guy in May. We totally hit it off and things went pretty fast, he is in the middle of a divorce and enjoyed having me over all the time so much that 5 weeks later, he suggested I move in with him. I turned him down, fearing I was the rebound woman and he agreed that was not a rational decision, but we said that if things were the same in a year that I would. So..
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I don't know what your question is exactly. But, if you are asking if you made the right decision as far as your internet bf goes, about you not moving in with him right now but perhaps in a year if all goes well? I think you made the right decision.
I see nothing in your post that comes across as strange events. I think it is great that you and your ex are able to maintane a best friendship and that you were able to live with them and their new children and he was able and probably is still able to have his children with you in the same house as him. You sound very mature and wise indeed. I agree with your decision to wait on moving in with your new bf. However, congrats on the two of you hitting it off so well. Blessed be...............
Ok.... I am now editing this response.
The way I see it is like this. If you want to make things happen and give it another go with this man after all you and him have gone through this far, then go for it. But, I definitly say that it needs to be a spoken agreement that you BOTH want a ONE on ONE relationship with eachother, no seeing other people. He let this other woman go because he saw that you had NO problem getting another man to date. This PEEKED his interest in you. He is going a little overboard competeing for your attention, that is what he is doing, but it is sweet that he is that determined at the same time. I say if you have feelings for this man then go for it. BUT make sure you BOTH agree to see only eachother. PERIOD. That way he doesn't get the notion that you are into him and he has gotten his way and can feel like its ok to pick up dating this other woman again. ITs ALL, or back to seeing other people as well as him. That is how I would play it. I hope this has helped a little more. Thank you for letting me know about the more details and giving me a chance to come and edit my answer. BLessed be and good luck......... Risks are always worth taking . Its how we know we are alive !!!! :)
What do I think? You sound like a teenager, not 32. Get some self respect.