im 12 and im suicidal?!


Question: Im 12 and im suicidal?
im 12 and im feeling suicidal. I get bade grades but i have the potential to get good grades. When i was in elementary school i would get A's and B's and C's. Now im in 7th grade and i get F's and D's. I think my parents don't like me. I've never had a gf in middle school but i had a whole bunch in elementary, now i have no gf's because i have pimples

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I'm not trying to belittle you, but please get real over the thing about girlfriends.. you're TWELVE. Many people don't even start dating until they're 15/16 or even older in some cases. As for your grades, you either need extra support at school or need to work harder, but you have a lot of time to fix your grades. You even admit yourself you have the potential, so you know you can get better.

None of this is worth killing or even harming yourself ever. Entering the mental health system at such a young age could potentially ruin your life, as you'll find you'll miss a lot of school if you have to get committed and you may even affect your future employment prospects. The military, for example, rarely taken on people who have histories of self-harm or attempted suicide, and in the US, the military is often used to help people pay for university, and I'm sure you'd like as many options open to you as possible.

Ask your teacher if you could get a mentor or school counsellor to help you.

18 years old, been there, done that.
I have many friends with MH issues.



You are a preteen and the next couple of years are going to be hard! They are for everybody. Welcome to puberty. They once did this survery where 90% + adults said they would live their lives over again if they could. But only 10% or less said they would live their lives over if they had to start in junior high! Take comfort in the fact that although your peers might seem okay, they probably aren't. Most of their lives are sucking too. Some just hide it better than others.

Is there a school counselor you could talk to? There might be other reasons your grades have dropped. Are you having a hard time paying attention? Is reading or writing or maybe math harder than it should be? Hard time staying organized? Go get some help! Find people to talk to! The more people you connect to the easier this time will be for you. Adults, kids, whoever....hook up with other people.

The one thing that connects us all is the fact we all suffer. All of us. Reach out to others, don't get locked in your bubble and good luck :) . Hang in there!

If you keep having suicidal thoughts, and you have thought about how you would do it, what you would use to do it, when you would do it,etc then you have gone to far and you need to tell a teacher, the principal, your parents, someone!



I was the same as you, i hated being 12-13, now i blame it on hormones, as i am not so depressed now. i talked to my dad about it and he was so shocked, he said his mum had suffered 9 months in pregnancy, he would never just consider throwing his life in the trash. could you tell your friends you feel down and ask them to help you whether its having fun, or with homework, or even ask a teacher for help catching up? If you dont have strong friendships, i didnt, maybe you could join a youth club to have a laugh and get some new mates? As for never having a gf, the average age most people first get a bf/gf is 13-14 so dont worry, and by that age, pretty much everyone has spots/pimples, esp girls who cover them up anyway! plus relationships suck, dont worry :):) Smile :D



Sounds a bit extreme don't you think?

Bad grades doesn't mean your going to have a bad life. I know plenty of people who didn't get into high school and they are doing fine!

At 12 your not going to have a serious girlfriend, as mean as that's sounds, your 12. Don't worry about it.

Pimples are normal too. Who doesn't get pimples?

Cheer up and think of the good things :3



Go to the doctor and he will give you something to take away your pimples. When you do that things will look much better in your life. Go now to see your doctor.



Youre 12. You can't even spell. You shouldn't have girlfriends yet. I'm 18 and I now realize that everything under age 16 doesn't count. One day, you'll understand this



puberty. try being a class clown or something. but remember this all suicidals, if you pull the trigger, there is rewinding



Get to the dermatologist, and throw away your sloth
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I suppose you're on a depressive stage (: You'll get over it



Suicide is for quitters.



you have your whole life ahead of you




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