Is it my fault this girl is depressed and suicidal? I feel she is being dramatic!


Question: Is it my fault this girl is depressed and suicidal? I feel she is being dramatic on purpose.?
I worked with this girl who is nine years younger than me and we were friends and she developed feelings for me and told me. I had told everyone at my work I was single, because I don't like people to pry into my life, but I have a fiancee in my home country, so that is why this girl thought we could have something. I told her I had a girlfriend and she left me alone for six months and even left the country without saying goodbye.

Six months later she starts emailing me again, telling me that she wants to be with me and loves me and then sends me about ten love letters every day for the next year. I would never address the fact that she wanted to be with me, I would just comment on other things she talked about like movies etc.

After one year of this, the emails started to get more graphic and were all about sex and how she wanted to be with me. I called her up a few times and we had phone sex and then I asked her to strip for me on web cam. I said we could be together secretly and she was really happy about that, but then I changed my mind and just stopped responding to her emails.

I now find out she was admitted to hospital last week after trying to kill herself.

What should I do?

Answers:

DAAAAAAAAAAMn Booooyy....



1. She's psycho and seeking attention.
2. You have a fiancee. Shame on you.



Oh god. Your fault for leading her on like that. but she took it too hard.



WOMEN ARE WEIRD DON'T WORRY ABOUT IT SHE WILL BOUNCE BACK WOMEN ARE REAL TOUGH!




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