Why do i always remember bad things and not good things?!
Question: Why do i always remember bad things and not good things?
I know it's affecting me , I don't want to die remembering bad things so why can;t i remember good things?
Answers:
i have the same thing, im 14 and it started at like 8 years old. i think its all in the mind , just try and focus on like your wedding and all that good stuff. or go out and have fun and get your mind off it, its what i do . (:
myself
It is a very wonderful thing to turn you life around. You should keep guiding yourself to positive things and not negative. Be a leader for change. Just don't push it in people's face.
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It's all a matter of perception. When you're in a bad mood, negative thoughts are more likely to occur. Usually, people remember traumatic events more clearly because the amount of emotion that was paired with it. How we felt at the time has a strong influence over its place in our memory. Maybe your positive and happy moments were not accompanied by a strong enough emotion for you to remember it? I'm sorry if your adolescent and young adult life were not the best but it's not too late to turn it around. Start trying to make new memories or plan to do things that you want. And by your negative mindset (how you think you can't get a man), it's probably attracting the negative memory.