Very Bad Depression HELP ME!!!?!

Question: Very Bad Depression HELP ME!!!?

Hi guys, i have very bad depression and i need help bad. I have been to talk to a psychologist and it hasn't helped at all. I dont know what to do anymore. I dont feel comfortable talking to my partner, mum or dad. Im depressed because i have a very bad back and im in so much pain and i need a operation to fix it but the surgeon said im to young to have that kind of operation. I was on workcover and now they have stopped paying my weekly payments so im now on disability pension getting hardly any money at all. Im renting a house with my partner and we have a 11 month old son. Im stressed about money all the time, no one will hire me for work because of my back, im the man of the house so i should be a provider but cant be so i feel like im worthless and i feel my partner would be happier with someone with a job. I dont feel good enough and worth any ones time anymore. Each week is a struggle with money and getting stressed out by the smallest things. Because im in so much pain i snap at the smallest thing but dont mean to.
I just want help so bad and if i dont get it im not sure what will happen. I pretty much hate waking up every morning. :(

Answers:

I was in the exact situation, with my back, depression and lack of money, and it is painful in more ways then one.
Go to see your psychiatrist and have him/her put you on an anti depression medication such as Paxol, or any number of them that ae prescription only, and for short term depression, ask them to prescribe Adavan or .5 mg of Xanax to help with depression, and I don't know your age, but surgery is the last thing you want at any age. I found that acu-puncture really gave me permanent relief, but I waited until I went to China to get it by a master in the field bu I am sure you could find a reputable acu-punturist near or in your town.

Certified paramedic and I was in your same exact situation

Get a second opinion about the operation. it doesn't seem that you are so young. Anyone would be depressed in your circumstances, so stop blaming yourself for that. And stop thinking of yourself as worthless. Your own attitude about your back condition is adding tons of stress to your life. no wonder you hate waking up. You are going to have to find a doctor who can help you, either with physical therapy or an operation. But lighten up on yourself!

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