How should you act towards a woman after a "rejection" or rather, an e!
Question: How should you act towards a woman after a "rejection" or rather, an excuse/hint that she's not interested?
She could be any of these, so I'm confused and don't know how to act:
1) Straight and was never interested
2) Bicurious and never thought it would go anywhere
3) Bisexual but cares more for someone else (bf)
4) Bi/les and was initially interested but was turned off by my flakiness (and made up the bf as well as the excuse)
We'd planned to get together(I'd simply asked to "get together sometime" so didn't say it was a date)a week in advance. The night b4 the get together, she came up to me to say that her boyfriend had a doctor's appointment so she couldn't make it. Doctors don't hold appointments so late in the evening(8pm) so it was a made up excuse. She did ask if I had wanted to reschedule for the next week (and I didnt).
The night b4 she'd cancelled, the first i'd seen her since asking thru text, I acted like I didn't even notice her in the room. So I'm leaning towards 4. Either way, I can't be sure so...
How do I go about acting around her? Ignore her? Polite smile and continue on? Friendly, work towards more of a friendship, talk more? I feel a bit awkward/foolish around her at the moment, honestly, but I still want to get to know her..I was never forward around her and had never previously expressed my interest, so I'm not sure why she seemed to see the text invite as a date or seemed to get that I was interested... To add, no, it doesn't "hurt" to be around her.
Answers:
shes testing you...
try appearing with another (hotter) date in her presence.. even if it's a unknown hot female friend to get her blood boiling.
That'll get you your answer from her if she calls you etc.. then act casual about it like she 'aint no thang'.. this'll make her wonder and persue you. :-)
Try crying uncontrollably, then sh*t your pants
Stop trying to over analyze this. She asked if you wanted to reschedule, and you didn't. Why are you worrying about her now? You don't even know her well enough to know if she saw the text invite as a "date" or not. For all you know, she may have just thought you wanted to start a friendship because, if I remember right from the first time you posted, you saw each other at the gym. Act normal, and don't assume you know what she's thinking.