is my friend going insane or what!!?? im scared haha?!


Question: Is my friend going insane or what!!?? im scared haha?
Ok so i think my friend is going crazy. First off yes were teenagers so if this is just a teenager thing please tell me cause i have never seen someone act this way.
I became friends with her in like 7th grade, everyone knew she lied but its gotten very very very bad.Basically her WHOLE LIFE is a lie. She lie about her family, her grades, her friends everything! and she has really scary mood swings and sometimes i think she is bipolar. i mean i know teens are supposed to go through this but not this dramatic right?
theres also these two guys that she *doesnt like* and in my opinion all they want from her is her stuff cause shes rich. and sometimes they make fun of her and then me and my friends will comfort and make her laugh and then she'l go and to THEM about how bad of friends we are.
Anyway her lies, actually start to being the truth like she sees her lies as the truth. Its kind of creepy. Even if you have a stack of evidence against her she will just shake it off telling me that im a bad friend.. She wasn't always like this and i miss her soo much is she always gonna be like this?
maybe i am just venting on here, cuz everyone thinks we are the bad, evil friends because she makes up lies about us so much and stuff but i really do care about her so is there anything i can do?
shes also lost alot of good friends because the guys dont like them?

Answers:

This may sound a bit harsh.
I would suggest putting distance between yourself and her.
If you see her, I wouldn't try avoiding her, I would be friendly, but I wouldn't subject myself to that sort of situation.
I can hear how difficult the situation is and can only imagine. I used to be friends with someone who was a habitual liar.
If she confronts you as to why you guys don't hang out and she really wants to know why not, I would simply be honest with her. You don't have to be mean, if she sincerely want to know then sincerely tell her that her behavior hurt you. You can throw in whatever else you may see as appropriate such as "I can't bear to see you head down such a destructive road".
It sounds like she's very confused right now. So going to her and trying to confront her would be pointless. But if she comes to you, and is ready to listen, I would be honest with her about how you feel.
By stepping away from her you show her (and yourself) that you respect yourself. By telling her the truth of how you feel (without getting angry) you show her that she has a real friend who she can be honest with. After all, perhaps she really feels like being honest hasn't worked for her. But by you being an honest person in your life, perhaps she'll see the rewards of that and make a change for the better.
I hope it all works out for you




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