Why do I only attract guys who are clinically depressed?!


Question: Why do I only attract guys who are clinically depressed?
I came to the realization today that all of my past boyfriends have been clinically depressed, and occasionally suicidal. They've always revealed it later in the relationship, I'm not aware of it when we start dating. Is it me? Am I not worthy of someone who is emotionally stable?

Answers:

My friend was kinda depressed, and i saw girls trying to date him like hell. These were sweet girls who were very emotional and had a lot of sympathy. I think your subconcious lead you to them, cause u wanna help them and make them happy, even if you're not aware of it. That's just a theory, but if it's true, that dossn't mean u are not worthy of being with someone who is not depressed. I mean many depressed people are needy and pathetic and your subconcious just helps them.



Good for you for seeing the pattern in who you chose as bf's. This is what you could find out when you get into some kind of therapy.
People (anyone) who is depressed, doesn't feel good enough about themselves, has low self esteem, has depressed family members, can have a subconscious need to atract someone who is depressed and suicidal.
I did say SUBCONSCIOUS, which means one isn't aware of the reasons.

You will have to find the reasons you are doing this.
I think it is telling that you would have to ask whether or not you deserve or worthy of someone who is emotionally stable.

Of course you are. Of course you deserve someone who is stable. Everyone does. You don't know it. So that is where you could begin to figure out why, and if you just want to help it the fastest, find a therapist trained in eft by gary craig. eftmastersworldwide.com .

You have made the first step just by realizing this is happening. Now you can do someothing about it.
Learn how to find healthy people, date and all the rest. teenrelationships.org loveisrespect.org startstrongteens.org girlsinc.org doublesunrise.com

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