i really need help.. i think im going crazy.. idk what to do next.?!


Question: I really need help.. i think im going crazy.. idk what to do next.?
15. i come from a really religious family. im saved i think but ive been a backslider since the age of 10 it seems like my whole life theres been someone judging me or preaching at me. my parents do all the time. which i think led me to fall away from god. i feel like a piece of worthless crap. idk how to explain it but no matter what i do people always think im a bad person. ive always had low self esteem and thought i was for sure going to hell for a while. i know i sound like a little kid who just doesnt understand things yet but i really do. i was once very mature for my age and even a lot of adults would compliment me on my wisdom.. but now here i am. i feel so alone and empty. i lost myself completely. nobody understands me. i feel like i cant talk to anyone because im a bad person and theyll judge me or they just wont understand. theres a lot of problems i have im just not going to write them on here. theres so many things i need to tell someone. i feel like im about to explode. but theyre so hard to explain.. i wish i could be someone else. id take anyone else but me.

Answers:

Most people, like your parents, probably just care about you and want you to be the best person you can, and thats why the preach at you. And from what your saying I know that you want that for yourself. But the problem with people judging you or thinking your a bad person probably isn't as bad as you think, and your just being too hard on yourself. In the cases that people DO judge you unfairly, then the wrong is in that person, not you. Most people judge others all the time, and its sort of just a way to make them feel better about themselves. So it has nothing to do with you, and those opinions aren't thought over in any way.

Anyway, back to you wanting to be the best person you can. Everybody in this world sets goals for themselves, whether good or bad. But the problem with the world today is that people tend to focus more on things of this world ----i'm not saying theres more than this world, nor will I bring religion into this for you probably hear enough of that---- but people focus more on things of the flesh, things for themselves. Selfish things, from the smallest thing like wanting the most cake as a little kid at a birthday party, to bigger things like wanting vast amounts of money and power. Whether you believe in any sort of religion or not, Our bodies are nothing more than vessels for our souls.

“You don't have a soul. You are a Soul. You have a body.” - C.S. Lewis

Nothing of this world is truly gratifying or lasts, and can never truly make you feel full on the inside. So what makes you full? The simplest way to put it: Love. Love other people, Love your neighbor, Love your enemy, Love God. Even if you have not very much faith in religion, the Bible was spot on in philosophy. Everything it teaches about how one should act comes from love. And as I said, being selfless and kind and helpful to others is truly gratifying and it lasts, unlike worldly pleasures.

When you say you feel empty, I believe this is what you are missing. Is the emptiness not on the inside? Then fill it up with something. But there are also many dangerous and harmful things one can fill up themselves with, such as lust and greed and hate, yet they will never quench your thirst; they'll only make you thirstier. So if you feel like your going crazy, just pause for a minute. Think beyond your problems, and beyond your opinion of yourself and others opinions of yourself. The only thing truly stopping you from being happy and feeling full, is yourself. When your parents preach to you, I completely understand how annoying that can be, but just try to take what you can out of it. Don't ignore them just because they're your parents, or because they're telling you what to do; just listen for something useful in what they're saying. And also remember, i don't know your parents obviously, but they are probably smarter and wiser than you think and may have some helpful insight on your problems.

Basically what i'm trying to say, is that you haven't lost yourself. Your just looking in the wrong direction.


Don't hesitate to edit your question to email me at bassflaggs@gmail.com if you need any further or more specific advice, and Good Luck.
Good luck

Experiences.



As long as you try your best, and do what you can your not going to hell, and you are a good person.
Talk to your doctor.



I Love You And Realy Care About You Even Though I Dont Know YOu And If YOu Need Suport Just Email Me At cheyanneh21@yahoo.com Or Call Me At 860-857-4573



feel free to IM me whenever, ill listen.. even if its a rant about how people dont take you seriously ^^
dont worry man :)




The consumer health information on answer-health.com is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice or treatment for any medical conditions.
The answer content post by the user, if contains the copyright content please contact us, we will immediately remove it.
Copyright © 2007-2011 answer-health.com -   Terms of Use -   Contact us

Health Categories