I'm pretty negative person, people say i complain all the time, I'm ne!
Question: I'm pretty negative person, people say i complain all the time, I'm never satisfied?
What do you think is the problem and how what can i change?
Maybe it's because i never had a close family, i moved a lot, and friends always come and go.
Answers:
You just need people you can connect with, or a woman in your life; Someone you can share good times with. I think you'll be a lot happier when you do.
It's hard to know what to do, but it's good you want to change.
Firstly, don't say anymore negative things (or say them less). Keep it to yourself. Your mind will continue to think of them, which is ok, but you don't need to share them with other people. Eventually, your mind will become less negative too.
Otherwise, it's hard to change straight from a negative person to a positive. There's no quick fix. Even if you got a girlfriend or something, you'd be happy for a little bit, but you're still the same person and eventually, your old personality will surface again.
I suggest you just remain aware of it and keep at it, surround yourself with positivity, positive friends, watch positive movies at the cinemas, be on the lookout for positive things in general. You'll get there eventually ;)
oh. close family and the friends is causing the depression because you have never really had someone to relly on or to trust. as u said, since friends have came into your life and left, there has never really been that friend trust or someone you can talk to, to make you happy and feel that you have a reason to live and to know what ur really worth.
Surround yourself with positive people. Eventually their positive attitude will "rub-off" on you.
If you are one of those annoying people who always complain then just stop it. Stop being selfish, not everyone is here to please you. Get off your high horse
Talk to your doctor. Sooner you do, sooner you feel the change.