How can I fix my life? Help it's horrible :(?!


Question: How can I fix my life? Help it's horrible :(?
First of all please do not say I'm lieing because I know some sick people will lie about serious stuff like this. I'm 12 years old and I'm a girl. My brother and aunt sexually abuse me and I haven't told anyone :/ I started cutting 3 weeks ago ( i know it's wrong ) It makes me feel better .. it helps me and it's the only thing I have. I have been told by docters i have OCD and schizophrenia but my mom says I'm lieing and there lieing and its gotten worse. I don't sleep ,i passed out at school and it was horrible.. i hallucinate .. i see ghosts and wild animals and hear voices and noises. i can only sleep at 6 am if that. im scared of getting kid napped and killed and raped by my brother :( my life is horrible and i don't know what to do. I packed to run away but i only had 200 dollars and I'm only 12.. i have a sister but shes mean and punched me. my aunt only sexually abuses me and my brother hits and sexually abuses me... i tell them to stop i really do but they don't. I'm glad I found this sight.. I am a christian but my mom won't let me go too church. I don't want to tell .. my family seems picture perfect and people would think I'm lieing i usually cry everyday and i cant have a close friend ship at all I'm too scared. i have so many problems in my life please tell me what to do? thanks so much :) - Lily ( please no mean comments I swear i'm 100 percent not lieing ) I'm glad I found this sight too it helps. I also twitch too much too fall asleep people notice at school i mean is it abusive if ur parents dont get u medical help or BARELY feed you?

Answers:

Wow. I don't know if you're lying or not, (if you really truly aren't, them I'm so sorry. But you can't really blame me, like you said so many people say crazy stuff on here.) But anyway, you need some serious help!
First of all, I know it will be hard, but you HAVE GOT to tell someone. You just have to, there is no way out of it. If you don't trust anybody, then just take a deep breath and tell a teacher at school. By law they are supposed to report the case, whether they know if the person is lying or not.
Secondly, don't run away. I know your life is hard, but running away isn't going to get you anywhere but lost.
And third, please stop cutting yourself. I completely understand why you are doing it, but you can end up killing yourself doing that. It's addicting, yes, but (since you are Christian(= ) pray. I'm sure you already do, but you'd be surprised how God can affect your life by a simple prayer through out your day.
Lastly, know that there are people out there that can and will help you. There is just one slight issue with that: sometimes you have to work to find them. That means sucking it up and just going out there to tell your story until you get help, sticking up for yourself, and not letting go. Just keep driving, and know that you will get there soon. Keep that determination going, and I'll pray for you.:)



911 police emergency. you learn this **** in 1st grade



Hi, I know you don't want to tell but, you are still a child by law, and when you get to school, go straight to the Nurse's Office and ask her to call Child Services.
Even though you are trying to be a loyal family member by not "telling", you are allowing your relatives to continue to commit these abuses to you.
You Must tell.
If you need to vent feel free to email me.
Do be careful online young one.
These things are best left to professionals, and not to strangers on the internet.
In my prayers,
D
p.s.. always have hope

compassion



I am so sorry that you're being so violated and in just about the worst way possible. You're not lying in the least. Please do NOT run away from home and try to live on the streets as there are some very sick people out there waiting to try to force young girls or boys (and women) into prostitution otherwise known as human sex trafficking. Your family is evidently very dysfunctional and you may not want to tell anyone, but the behavior may not stop unless you talk to the guidance counselor, school nurse or any trusted adult who can get you help and to a safe place.

It is imperative that you get outside professional help for the OCD and especially the schizophrenia. If your mom will not get you the help, that is "just" one more thing to add to the list of why your home situation is not appropriate for you. No one wants anything worse to happen, know what I mean.

Here is a toll-free 24-Hour helpline for youth and teens who are being abused or neglected in the home or anyone who suspects that to be happening: 1-800-4-A-CHILD (1-800-422-4453) http://www.childhelp.org/pages/help-for-…

This site is for those who have been assaulted or violated by someone including in their own family: http://www.rainn.org

Boys Town has a toll-free 24/7 helpline for youth and teens who need someone to listen: 1-800-448-3000 http://www.boystown.org

You're quite welcome :) Please do tell a trusted adult so that you can get placed in a safer home.




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